TraciKp Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 There's a hot guy in one of my classes. I met him after we were assigned the same group for discussion. We got talking and I found him to be charming. I'm married at 19 or else I would certainly be interested. I invited him to hang out with some of my friends. He's 31 and most of my friends are 22 but he looks like he could be 23 easy. He's in excellent shape. Were talking and some where along the lines he notes that he's romantically cursed. He said that he probably couldn't get a date with the ugliest girl in the class. He almost boast about this fact. I give him a dare to try get a date on the next class. If he made a fair attempt and failed I would write up his next two papers. At the end of the next class, I stood back and watched. First he tried a cute girl and she gave a soft no. Then he tried loner girl she said no. Then he tried a heavy set girl and she blushed and shook her head. I was really surprised because he was so suave I thought they would've given him their number. I asked him if he was gay and he said no. He said he used to have a gf in every town. He would try for any cute girl seen including those who already had a bf. He was in love once but karma took care of that. Tbh I'm starting to believe that he's romantically cursed. Have you ever seen a a hot, smart guy who is unable to get a date? What is going on? Link to post Share on other sites
kaylan Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 You are interested, otherwise this thread wouldnt exist. I dont care about the dating life of hot single women when Im in a relationship. And I dont buy what that guy is selling btw. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
MrMeh Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 Maybe he isn't as attractive as you think? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LEEVIT2F8 Posted February 19, 2014 Share Posted February 19, 2014 Sounds like a good way to get his next couple papers done for free. Also, it is all an angle on you. Hes running that wolf in sheep's clothing game on you I suspect. He tested the waters telling you he hit on girls with boyfriends. Its obviously working you made this post. If hes really that good looking believe me he doesn't have issues meeting women. And its easy to get yourself shot down if you want no matter what you look like. Walking up to 3 random chicks after class asking for numbers while another girl looks on seems like a good one to me. Watch out because "If I wasn't married I'd be interested" can turn into a walk of shame with a night alone and a couple cocktails pretty quick. Just sayin... Link to post Share on other sites
Author TraciKp Posted February 20, 2014 Author Share Posted February 20, 2014 He would be attempting an elaborate ruse to try and have a fling with a married woman. Besides one of my friends who is better looking than me, invited him to go a party and he just said what's the use. Link to post Share on other sites
Omei Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 Why would you watch him try and get dates, when they fail ask him if he was gay? Ouch! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayken Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 @OP.... Is this what happens now in the confines of a lecture theater? I would write up his next two papers. A serious offense....where is the integrity? Link to post Share on other sites
Keenly Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 I can buy the attractive guy being cursed... but only for so long. If this Dude is in his 30s, and still is alone, there is something else that's a factor. Link to post Share on other sites
Ninjainpajamas Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 lol cursed? freakin 19 year olds man Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 You are interested, otherwise this thread wouldnt exist. :pMy thoughts exactly. Stay clear, OP, stay clear. Leave him be before you are tempted. There is no question that you are attracted and perhaps, you are one or two self-deluded excuses away from making a mistake. If he's so hot, then being in a relationship shouldn't be an issue UNLESS he's a player, a-hole or much less interesting than he's revealed. Who knows. Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 Nope, not possible, it's a scam. Ugly, poor, short, bald = Romantically cursed Hot = Not Romantically cursed Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 Neil Strauss completely obliterates your theory 99% of male LS posters are romantically cursed because they believe in "romance" telling a girl that you are romantically cursed = free access to her vag in hopes she can fix you... this post verifies said theory I would bet a dollar against a bottle of piss that she wouldn't want to "fix" the guy if he wasn't "hot". That's kind of the point of the thread. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrMeh Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 confidence = "hot" neil strauss figured it out, hes short, bald, ugly and was poor something the OLDers of this forum have yet to figure out... Called an exception. Link to post Share on other sites
Sivok Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 Neil Strauss completely obliterates your theory 99% of male LS posters are romantically cursed because they believe in "romance" telling a girl that you are romantically cursed = free access to her vag in hopes she can fix you... this post verifies said theoryAlot of guys here (and online in general) are just looking for their Manic Pixie Dream Girl - the life loving unconventional girl who picks up the shy/awkward introvert and shows him the beauty of the world. It's an extremely common trope in movies and shows - which has probably molded the vision of how dating goes for alot of guys with little experience Link to post Share on other sites
Sivok Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 confidence = "hot" neil strauss figured it out, hes short, bald, ugly and was poor something the OLDers of this forum have yet to figure out...I don't recall him being poor. He was also well-spoken and already knew how to talk - he was a writer for the Rolling Stones and knew how to interview very tough celebrities. He was in nowhere near as tough of a bind in life/emotionally as alot of other guys are. All he really needed to do was learn how to take something he already was and apply it to his dating life - alot of guys need to start from complete scratch. I'm not saying other guys can't (Owen Cook did), but Neil Strauss did NOT start from the bottom Link to post Share on other sites
Grumpybutfun Posted February 20, 2014 Share Posted February 20, 2014 You are sliding down a slippery slope. Interest in another mans love life means you have some interest yourself. Look at the Infidelity and OW/OM forums and you will see how many affairs began with just this type of scenario. Time to stop investing time and energy into his life. Good luck, Grumps 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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