Author tnmale41 Posted February 23, 2014 Author Share Posted February 23, 2014 Come to find out she is to damn stupid and posted to Facebook profile. That she is dancing the night away while my child and i are here alone. In Alabama no less.Its only an hour away but i know he is with her but didn't post his name just her friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 Come to find out she is to damn stupid and posted to Facebook profile. That she is dancing the night away while my child and i are here alone. In Alabama no less.Its only an hour away but i know he is with her but didn't post his name just her friends. Print and snap a photo of screen shot with your smart phone. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
harrybrown Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 Keep all the evidence for your divorce. Tell her she needs to leave. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tnmale41 Posted February 23, 2014 Author Share Posted February 23, 2014 Well after last night and she didn't come home till 10:30 am.She was in a pissy mood and was pacing for some reason.I asked if she had something to say. She told me she knew i was talking to an attorney.The only way she could of found that out is if she checked my phone records for the numbers i have called. So she was worried i was going to come after her for what she did. So i told her i wasnt going anywhere and that if she needed to be with him get a bag and go and leave my daughter out of the middle of it. Well what does she do tells me shes going outside to smoke and as always my daughter hasn't seen her Since yesterday wanted to go outside with her. I go outside about ten minutes later and she took my daughter and ran. I have no idea where she went. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 (edited) Disable her car. Pull a a couple fuses. Call 911 and just tell them the story. She may kidnap the child. Unpredictable, strange behaviour - coming in at 10:30 am, then running with child. Keep calm. Let her act like a maniac. Only unstable people take a child and run. You have reason for concern. Just tell facts - no emotional stuff. Edited February 23, 2014 by Yasuandio Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 23, 2014 Share Posted February 23, 2014 911 ! This is your chance to document this bs. Wait a minute? Where do u live. It is 6:42 pm in Atlanta. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tnmale41 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 Its 6 pm here but i have drank a couple beers and do not want to talk to the cops with beer breath.I know stupid of my all the stress and i drink a damn beer. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Its 6 pm here but i have drank a couple beers and do not want to talk to the cops with beer breath.I know stupid of my all the stress and i drink a damn beer. Man, I certainly understand the need to toss a few back. And I agree, you should be straight when you talk to cops, cause they make assumptions about booze breath. But, let me ask you, do you know where your daughter is? Has your wife brought her back? After you answer - that is, if you answer, do you want further instructions? Yes or No? The reason I'm asking is cause this was a BIG eff-up on your part. And we are just learning about it 8 hours after the fact. I have been working on LS all day, to keep my mind off my own problems. I was available to help you. Let U's know whether you want assistance or not. Yas Link to post Share on other sites
Author tnmale41 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 (edited) Yes i do know where my daughter is she took her to her friends house.She came back here with her friend and got some things for my daughter and herself.I know she has to work tomorrow.Unless she runs to a lawyer first thing.That means my daughter will be somewhere i do not want her with. My plan is to go talk to the lawyer in the morning and then go to the police department to find out what i should do. If you have a better suggestion im all ears. Edited February 24, 2014 by tnmale41 Link to post Share on other sites
Raena Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 You need to get to your lawyer asap and ask him what to do. There has to to be some way you can get an emergency injunction to keep her from running off with your child. I don't think the police can do much without an order. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 OK EARS. TIME TO MAKE A CRISIS. Put booze down NOW and brush teeth, and plan something to eat, and to tranquilize yourself till the booze smell wears off about 3am. Answer NOW, while, I'm on this. Is the friend her lover boy? Is that the place she plans to house your daughter tonite? If so, that is unexcectable. Get me answers now. I will help you, but I want fast answers. Not beer drinking. Answer NOW. Y 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 You need to get to your lawyer asap and ask him what to do. There has to to be some way you can get an emergency injunction to keep her from running off with your child. I don't think the police can do much without an order. Raena, Maybe police intervention is limited, but it shows concern on OP's part. I mean, this woman goes for a smoke, thens runs away with his kid? He needs (really needed) to ahow some concern for this event. His daughter is missing. Who is this man his wife has taken up with? They leave, running on foot, as if escaping? Something is totally messed up about this picture. Now Dad is effed up, and we got to pull him together. It's a mess. So many on need right now on LS, I'm getting mixed up. Is this kid school age? If so, how does she get to school? If this is the infant, or dear, please confirm what kind of child this one ran off with OP, for Yas. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author tnmale41 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 no she is at her friends house not the guy she is with.But who knows he could be over there now.Her friend is feeding the fuel for her. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 No answer. If there is not one by half past hour - I give you up. I could be watching "Dance Moms." Y Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 no she is at her friends house not the guy she is with.But who knows he could be over there now.Her friend is feeding the fuel for her. OK, finally. Are you ready to put the booze down? Answer now. I'm not waiting. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Yes or no about the booze. Next question: do you have address of friend where daughter may be? Link to post Share on other sites
Author tnmale41 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 yes i do know where she is and have address and no more booze either Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 yes i do know where she is and have address and no more booze either GREAT! I almost gave up on you. How long will it take for you to appear sober in front of cops? 1. Brush teeth 2. Mouthwash 3. Eat a big meal - order a pizza 4. Brush teeth again 5. Eat more pizza 11:30 or Midnight - you are calling the cops. That's it. That is my plan. How do you like it? Link to post Share on other sites
Author tnmale41 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 Will do.What do i tell them besides whats going on.And how does that help?I do apologize for taking up your time.Can that get my child back to me? Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 (edited) Will do.What do i tell them besides whats going on.And how does that help?I do apologize for taking up your time.Can that get my child back to me? All you care about is turn yourself looking squeaky clean. Get to work. Order extra large pizza with everything. Take a shower. The faster we can clean you up the better. We call cops at "their" party time, and you will be looking like a soldier. I got to think about exicution. Stay on LS for info. Get the food NOW. Start eating. The mission will take place at 23:30 hours - just when they are good and drunk. You get me? My gut instinct is for you to be outside the target area when you make the call to 911. Have your camera ready. I have to think about this though. My combat skills are rusty, but my brains are what we need, cause u r handling ground mission. One step at a time. Between 21:47 and target time - turn yourself into a choir boy. Back in touch at 22:45 hours for status update. Y Edited February 24, 2014 by Yasuandio 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author tnmale41 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 Ok my wife doesn't drink and i do not think there's a party going on.I dont want to waist your time but i do not think my child is in danger i just do not like where she is at.I do not drive since we only have one vehicle so going there is out of the question.Her friend is feeding into her lies and most likely letting the man my wife is cheating with there.I hate it and do not want him around my child.But them being drunk and calling the cops to make them look bad wont work.I will talk to the lawyer tomorrow and go from there. Thanks for the help though. Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Ok my wife doesn't drink and i do not think there's a party going on.I dont want to waist your time but i do not think my child is in danger i just do not like where she is at.I do not drive since we only have one vehicle so going there is out of the question.Her friend is feeding into her lies and most likely letting the man my wife is cheating with there.I hate it and do not want him around my child.But them being drunk and calling the cops to make them look bad wont work.I will talk to the lawyer tomorrow and go from there. Thanks for the help though. Dude, you do not drive? It's alright your wife took off with your little girl today? It's now alright if she's exposed to this other man? Sits on the same potty seat as OM? Sees Mommy sleeping with OM? Has no explanation from YOU why shy was abducted from your premises on foot? You're ok where daughter is staying? OK. MISSION ABORTED. Pop another one open to celebrate jack' off. That's all you're getting from this expert. You are on your own now. Y Link to post Share on other sites
Author tnmale41 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 No first off i do not drive does that make me a bad person.Second im not ok where she is at.Third calling the cops because you think they are are over there partying before you even read my post fully is crazy.She toke my child in her vehicle to her friends house came back and got some things for them.She went out last night and didnt come back till 10:30 am this morning.That was before what happened today. I stopped drinking and i only had two beers. Im 180 and two beers does not make me drunk.I came here for help not scold me like a child.All i want is the best for my child and i.I would walk the ends of this earth to protect her. Dont judge me for what you think i am not doing.I have tried to make my marriage work and she does not want it. I am at my ropes end and came her for advice. Link to post Share on other sites
semicharmedlife Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 1. do not leave your home...she can not make you leave...even if she is the one with the money...if you do...her lawyer will make it look like you abandoned your child... 2. retain a lawyer...and do whatever they say to do...if you have been the primary parent...you WILL get custody, child support, and alimony... 3. be meticulous about documenting information 4. stay sober 5. good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author tnmale41 Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 Ok so i have been on the phone talking to three different lawyers.All told me the same thing.And the only three lawyers in this small town that deal with divorce. They said a divorce is a divorce. All i can do is retain them to go any further. That i might be able to get her for alimony. That since she is the mother that she has the right to take my child. I even told them i have been a stay at home dad for the past there and a half years. I told them she has been cheating. Whatever the laws are here are messed up. They want 1500.00 for a retainer and i told them i dont work because i stay at home with my child. I dont have that kind of money so am i screwed here or what.? Link to post Share on other sites
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