Iaminnocentgul Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 I was married 4 years before with a guy, which was an arranged marriage. He lied to me and my family that he was mentally diseased person. After 4 days of marriage he abused me in his depression stage. Next day he told that he has this mental disorder which can never be cured. I thought of supporting him. We continued in ON-OFF kind stage till last 1.5 year and then I thought to call it off. We are legally divorced now. I am single and free of all sorts of tension. But there is a grave thought going in my mind. Will I get a good guy now? Will he cheat or lie or be honest? Will I ever trust anyone now? I also fear about my age going by... Don't know how to go on further.... Any suggestions Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted February 22, 2014 Share Posted February 22, 2014 Just because the last guy was bad doesn't mean the next guy will be. If your next marriage is also to be arranged by your parents, perhaps they need to step up their investigation / due diligence. If you will have a hand in choosing, simply go slowly, ask questions & keep your eyes open. Link to post Share on other sites
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