rosedl Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 Not me. The quickest way for me to lose interest in a man is learning he is attached. One, I don't play my sisters that way. Two, I am not looking for a guy who would cheat on someone because the opportunity presented itself. He would do the same to me. Three, I don't find it arousing to compete for a man. I find it arousing for a man to want me. I don't get it. Serious level of insecurity to go after a man who is committed to another woman. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Got it Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 It may be but it's something when women go after attached men way more than men would attached women. Yeah . . . . no. Plenty of attached men go after attached and unattached women. I have had more married men hit on me then I would have ever expected. I think men take a more machine gun approach and figure they will eventually get someone in their cross hairs. Link to post Share on other sites
Snakechammah Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 I find this true in my experience. My boyfriend and I are not in each other's FB (my decision). I have not 'publicised' our relationship to my friendlist but we do have a common link - a friend of my cousin, whom we both know. However, on his end, my boyfriend has made it public he is "in a relationship" with a mysterious girl and has started showing off pictures of my gifts (fluffy toys, books and cards I have handcrafted, but not of me) and suddenly, all the flirty girls come out of the woodwork and started showing interest in him. In his own words, 'rather disrespectful for a girl who knows that the man is taken'. I find it laughable that insecure girls come running to him after finding out he's taken, when all these years they were in each other's FB and they never gave a crap. I don't know if it's jealousy cos they have no idea who I am, much less be jealous of me (there could be a chance I'm more unattractive than them) Why does being taken now makes him more desirable than when he was single for the past 4 years? Hmm... Link to post Share on other sites
man_in_the_box Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 I haven't noticed this at all. Personally, I get the same attention from women when I'm single and in a relationship. I also don't notice women becoming more interested in guys that are in relationships. I do notice that the guys that get interest from women while in a relationship tend to be the same guys that interest from women while single. So it seems to me that it has more to do with the overall attractiveness of the guy than anything else. Pretty much what this guy says. Link to post Share on other sites
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