Sivok Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Story time: So Saturday night, I met a girl in line at a bar, danced/talked to her all night, and brought her back to my place. Sometime in line we facebooked each other. Anyway, the next morning I dropped her off and she asked about contact information - I replied "we're on facebook now". She smiled and left. We talked a bit this morning, agreed on what it was, and ended up unfriending each other. Now... the whole contact-info-facebook-convo part was a bit awkward. We both acknowledged it as a one night stand, but how do you handle the 'are we seeing each other again or is this just a one time thing' sort of conversations? I haven't really got a handle on that yet. Is it always one of those awkward things? Guys? Girls? Link to post Share on other sites
BC1980 Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 I wouldn't do anything unless she contacts you. If she contacts you, I would just send a short text saying it isn't going to work out. It's a one night stand. You don't really owe each other anything. I don't think there is any etiquette here to be honest. Link to post Share on other sites
Candy_Pants Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 I suppose if the sex was good, see eachother again. If not, go your separate ways. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ASG Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 The see each other/ not see each other again part is easy. If you want to, you make contact. If she also wants to, you'll get together again. If she doesn't want to, then she'll either tell you or not respond, in any case you'll have you answer. Same thing goes for her. There really is no "etiquette". Link to post Share on other sites
soyou Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 I've got quite a handful number of one night stands. It's my own rule that i dont date my one night standers. After sex, no phone or contact info will be given. Sometimes when the sex is too good and the guy kept begging for my phone, I may give it a go and bang him a few times more if possible then slowly run away. If the guy just happened to have my number when i was so drunk and he called afterwards. If i was not interested in, i would say so. Its just a one night stand. Who cares? You hurt nobody's feelings!! Link to post Share on other sites
Hopeful30 Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 Just ask. If you want another one night stand, say so. If you think she does, ask if thats what she's after. I've never had a one night stand. I'm sorry but you gotta work to get between these legs LOL so I can't give you too much advice on that front Link to post Share on other sites
Barbarossa Posted February 24, 2014 Share Posted February 24, 2014 If she's sexy and has skills in the sack I would definitely hit her up. If not she wouldn't hear from me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sivok Posted February 24, 2014 Author Share Posted February 24, 2014 Sounds like I've been over thinking it. Thanks all Link to post Share on other sites
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