Jam23 Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 It's been 4 months since my best friend and my ex fiance left me for one another. I've gone NC, removed both of them from every possible part of my life and have been fine for the last 2 months (for the most part). Today though I came across a picture of both of them, together. Happy and smiling and acting as though their relationship was one that dreams were made of. I've never in my life felt so angry and so sad at the same time. I trusted them both with my life, and together they stabbed me in the back and left me for dead (metaphorically) yet, here they are, guilt free, happy, no repercussions for their actions whatsoever. My friends tell me I'm much better now that they are out of my life, that they both held me back, that people like that don't deserve a person like me. I believe it. I'm exercising again, going out again, and meeting people. But still, I'm finding it rather hard to cope with what I saw. Link to post Share on other sites
Tripz Posted February 25, 2014 Share Posted February 25, 2014 I feel your pain, similar situation, but I was actually married. So here's what I did today and it was actually kindof fun...I found a picture of them together (since he was already a family friend we had lots), blew it up to 8 1/2 X 11, printed it out and hung it on my wall. Then I went and got some darts. I swear I threw darts for an hour!!! Was so friggin fun, that I got zero work done! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jam23 Posted February 25, 2014 Author Share Posted February 25, 2014 I've considered it lol. I see the friend almost everyday since we both have the same major and are constantly in the same building, he just kind of cowers and runs when he sees me so that makes me feel pretty good. But I've lived with the idea that nothing good comes from something bad, and yet here they are happy and fine. Of course when he decided to destroy my relationship with my fiance he simultaneously destroyed every relationship with all of his friends so he literally has no one but her. I like to think that deep down he's as miserable as I was when I was with her (of course I was obviously in denial about it when we were together) still though, just so very very angry. Link to post Share on other sites
StGeorge22 Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 That's a really tough situation, it sounds like you have handled yourself with class, which is more than I can say for your ex and your friend. At the end of the day all you can do is stick to your morals and good things will happen. In another 4 months I hope you are even happier Link to post Share on other sites
Shaine Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 Im into 4 months post BU too and just saw a pic of my ex with another girl. It f hurts. I thought im already okay with it but heck i was wrong. I feel the only time i will be fully moved on is when i m already in a relationship with someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
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