I feel so bad.

[yklis]

I started dating this guy but we are not official, I feel like he plays games with my head. One day he says he wants to be with me and then he will be like I can do what ever I want because I am single but when I say that he gets all mad. He looks in my phone and makes stupid remarks if other guys text me. Well I am single and can do what I want.

I like him but his bro always tries to get me to hang out with him. They are estranged and do not talk at all. I told his bro that I like his bro and am seeing him but he doesn't care. I told him he is probably just trying to use me to spite his bro and he says that he is irrelevant to him.

The bad thing is that I kinda have a crush on the bro now and we have been talking and flirting a lot. I know it will piss dude off and don't wanna hurt him but I can't help but be curious about the bro. What do I do?

[HappyLove]

I started dating this guy but we are not official, I feel like he plays games with my head. One day he says he wants to be with me and then he will be like I can do what ever I want because I am single but when I say that he gets all mad. He looks in my phone and makes stupid remarks if other guys text me. Well I am single and can do what I want.

I like him but his bro always tries to get me to hang out with him. They are estranged and do not talk at all. I told his bro that I like his bro and am seeing him but he doesn't care. I told him he is probably just trying to use me to spite his bro and he says that he is irrelevant to him.

The bad thing is that I kinda have a crush on the bro now and we have been talking and flirting a lot. I know it will piss dude off and don't wanna hurt him but I can't help but be curious about the bro. What do I do?

 

Of all the millions of people in the world you had to start talking to his BROTHER? Leave them BOTH alone. Your careless actions could ruin an entire family. This is bad all around. Walk away!

[Chi townD]

Wow, drop them both. You are jiggling with the lock on Pandora's box.

 

 

If I'm reading correctly, Boyfriend doesn't seem too committed to you. And it seems like you're not too committed to him as well. He seems interested but is afraid to pull the trigger to make it an official relationship. But, if you keep telling him that you're single and you're having other dudes in contact with you, then what's the motivation for him to make it official? It's like you're gloating on the fact that you're single and it's only a matter of time before he gets hurt.

 

 

And drop his brother. Even if they are estranged, it's still his brother and you are going to drive a massive rift into their already strained relationship as well as their entire family. What happens if you and brother get serious? How would their mother feel that her son (boyfriend) won't come around on Christmas or Thanksgiving because brother wants to bring you along? How are you going to feel knowing that you split up a family?

 

 

It's all bad news, best for you to just drop them both and move on.

[MrMeh]

That's cray cray bro. Get out of that situation before you have two mad broskis on your hands.

[ExpatInItaly]

The whole situation is a big ball of WTF. Wrapped in OMG. Topped with DNW!!

[tlegend]

Seriously....expand your horizons and leave this family alone.

 

Your playground needs to be somewhere other than this guys backyard.

[devilish innocent]

Yklis, the first guy is already making things difficult for you before you're even official. Imagine how much worse it could get if your relationship became serious. The second guy might be better, but ask yourself this: Do you really like him for him, or do you just want to be part of some family drama?