He will wait for me in Friday.

[AlphaC]

I've made my decision since September 2013! I wonder, how am I going to see him banging other girls? I don't own a telescope.

 

I don't understand why you and Alpha insist that I am not over him. I am not in love with him any more. That doesn't mean I don't care. What you're saying is superficial, not me.

 

 

What do you mean why? Because he wants me back!

 

Read your thread again, lots of people think and KNOW that you are not over him. Since you asked I will reply, it's called Second Chances for a reason and it's very easy to figure out why.

 

Second Chances Called it off but doubting the decision now? (this was clearly meant for the Dumper); Someone wants you back? (this obviously was meant for the Dumpee); not too hard to figure this out.

 

As the Dumper you called it off and are now doubting your decision, hence your posting! We all see this clearly, you are just in denial, remember it is you, not the DUMPEE posting.

[regine_phalange]

Aargh! Are you for real! Well then, let the moderators move it to another section , jesus!

 

I made it clear in the 1st post that I don't want to go back and I'm not second guessing the breakup.

[LifeGoesOnMan]

I've made my decision since September 2013! I wonder, how am I going to see him banging other girls? I don't own a telescope.

 

I don't understand why you and Alpha insist that I am not over him. I am not in love with him any more. That doesn't mean I don't care. What you're saying is superficial, not me.

 

 

What do you mean why? Because he wants me back!

 

if you don't want him, don't go, don't talk to him anymore.

 

It shouldn't matter and nothing you can do but getting back with him will make things right in his eyes.

 

You cant be friends, it doesn't work that way.

 

Let him go, he'll get over you.

 

But you won't know what you got until it's gone.

[David87]

People , she's over him ( maybe no 100% ) . She doesn't want him back. Stop with all this negativity and give the girl a break.

[Els]

Wait a minute...

 

Are you the same poster who is currently in an affair, or did you and her just coincidentally manage to choose the exact same avatar?

 

Edit: Sorry, I know it's kinda off topic, but my advice would be very different depending on whether this guy is a MM or not, lol.

[regine_phalange]

Wait a minute...

 

Are you the same poster who is currently in an affair, or did you and her just coincidentally manage to choose the exact same avatar?

 

Edit: Sorry, I know it's kinda off topic, but my advice would be very different depending on whether this guy is a MM or not, lol.

 

Lol, no, Im single and he was not married! I guess we have the same avatar.

[Els]

Lol, no, Im single and he was not married! I guess we have the same avatar.

 

Whoops, that was my bad, then!

 

I think the polite thing to do would be to inform him with a simple "No thank you, I will not be going. Please don't contact me again". You don't need to respond to any further texts after that.

[readynow]

You don't have to be in love with someone to not want to hurt them.

 

She's here to ask whether to tell him not to bother or to let him wait. She's not here because she's still in love with him or wants to meet him.

 

I have several exs - that I'm totally over - that I wouldn't want to keep waiting at the door. I totally get it. She's over the guy but doesn't want to hurt him.

 

Unfortunately, he had asked you to show if you want to be with him - and not to reply. Feel free to leave him standing there so that he can move on. He'll be fine and soon move on to the next chic - till he wants you again.