zelly Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 I am pure of heart. I don't have an ego or have any negative thoughts or feelings in me whatsoever. I also have a cheerful energetic personality and have remarkable intuition at seeing the good in others.My love of competition; specifically sport fighting is profound.My most remarkable ability is my will to succeed, my tenacity and persistence. I am always determined to push myself beyond my limitations, and never give up even when the odds are stacked against me. I also have fierce loyalty and morality. I am also a kind and empathetic person. Would you date me? Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 No, you think too much of yourself lol So what are your flaws? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr.Mango Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 Word of advice, dating isn't filling out a resume and applying for a position. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author zelly Posted February 26, 2014 Author Share Posted February 26, 2014 No, you think too much of yourself lol So what are your flaws? my flaws is that I can be very blunt with people and somewhat naive. Link to post Share on other sites
Sivok Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 You sound like a great guy on paper. Emphasis on paper. Alot of great girls fall for washed up bums - it's all about your ability to court/seduce. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
HappyLove Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 You sound like a nice guy to me! How old are you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author zelly Posted February 26, 2014 Author Share Posted February 26, 2014 You sound like a nice guy to me! How old are you? I am 19 years old. I will turn 20 in about 4 months. Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 Those are all good qualities (except maybe the sport fighting haha), but nobody can answer that question based on a list of your attributes. There's more to choosing who to date than the qualities you possess. Such as... Is there chemistry between us? (are we attracted to each other?) Do we communicate well and get each other? Do we like and respect each other? Do we have similar goals and values? Do we laugh at each others jokes? As we start dating, is there progress and a deepening of our connection? Dating isn't about who you are. It's about who you are WITH someone else. There is no right or wrong way to be - it's about finding the person who fits with you. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 I am pure of heart. I don't have an ego or have any negative thoughts or feelings in me whatsoever. I also have a cheerful energetic personality and have remarkable intuition at seeing the good in others.My love of competition; specifically sport fighting is profound.My most remarkable ability is my will to succeed, my tenacity and persistence. I am always determined to push myself beyond my limitations, and never give up even when the odds are stacked against me. I also have fierce loyalty and morality. I am also a kind and empathetic person. Would you date me? Here are the questions that really matter. Are you tall and or good looking? Do you know how to talk to women in a way that gets them excited? Everything else is irrelevant. Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 You know having an ego is not a bad thing, that's what will keep you going, keep you demanding respect from others, keep you pushing yourself. My ego pushes me to excel at work and pushes me through my last jogging mile. As for not having ANY negative thoughts in you, well, it's hard to believe. I am sure you caught yourself swearing once or twice when you got cut off on the highway....or when you hit your toe on the the bed post. Fierce loyalty? ....Lets say you understand the definition of loyalty. If you were 60 years old and saying you have a fierce loyalty it would have an impact on me, at 19 hhhhmmmm not so much. If you think of using this post in a dating profile or something, we definitely need to help you with this. This type of text will NOT work well for you. Link to post Share on other sites
soccerrprp Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 Sorry, OP, but no one is "pure" of heart. Naive and sheltered, perhaps, but not pure. Are you a priest, a Buddhist monk? Not even they are 'pure'. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
darkmoon Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 "never give up even when the odds are stacked against me" this sounds a bit daft, tbh, if the odds are so stacked, you have zero chances of succeeding and should change tack/goal Link to post Share on other sites
Phantom888 Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 Would a woman feel safe around you? Are you a good guy or a good guy with attitude? Do you feel confident? Has any girl ever thought you are cute or charming (sisters don't count). Are you a funny dude? Are you smart? These are really important factors at your age. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
FitChick Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 Yeah, but what do you look like? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Chalkdust89 Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 (edited) Besides the fact that you're too young for me I am turned off by people who feel the need to explain how good of a person they are. If you are truly a good person, it will show in your words and actions and you shouldn't have to tell me. I would much rather know what you do/study, where you're from, what your goals are, what you do for fun, etc. Though being nice and kind-hearted is something I definitely want in a guy, there are a lot of nice people in the world, so I wouldn't use that as THE deciding factor for dating/not dating someone. Another thing I desire is someone who can stand up for himself and for me when necessary. Being nice is awesome, but I also don't want to date a pushover. Do you sweep things under the rug, or are you confident enough to confront someone if they have wronged you/your partner? Edited February 27, 2014 by Chalkdust89 4 Link to post Share on other sites
OpheliaSong Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 Are you having trouble dating or something? Perhaps it would be best to come to it from that angle. Link to post Share on other sites
Janesays Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 No, unlikely. People that drone on and on about how great they are bore me. Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 I am pure of heart. I don't have an ego or have any negative thoughts or feelings in me whatsoever. I also have a cheerful energetic personality and have remarkable intuition at seeing the good in others.My love of competition; specifically sport fighting is profound.My most remarkable ability is my will to succeed, my tenacity and persistence. I am always determined to push myself beyond my limitations, and never give up even when the odds are stacked against me. I also have fierce loyalty and morality. I am also a kind and empathetic person. Would you date me? I would be wary of someone describing themselves as "pure of heart" with no ego, I would honestly roll my eyes . Why? No one is "pure" of heart and we all have egos, so I would simply assume someone describing themselves this way had little self-awareness or an over inflated/delusional sense of self or some weird need to seem "pure" which isn't even attractive. But besides that, while some of the qualities you listed are good qualities I can't just look at a list of alleged qualities and decide if I should date a man. Anyone can list some qualities they have, which may or may not be how other people really see them, and it still comes down to chemistry, attraction and how well we fit together, not just going to a "Man Shop" and looking at the "ingredient" list and taking a man home because the listed ingredients seem good. Link to post Share on other sites
erusaelptew Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 I wouldn't date you either but Im a dude so it would be for different reasons. I used to be like you. Nieve and thought I could explain my way into a girls heart. BELIEVE ME that is the wrong way. If you want to impress a girl... be ok with having flaws. If you have anyone in your life that you would call close, someone you would call a best friend. Think about how you interact with that person, how it's "just easy" to hang out with them. Treat ladies the exact same way and you will never fail. Welcome them into your life 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JP100 Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 I am pure of heart. I don't have an ego or have any negative thoughts or feelings in me whatsoever. I also have a cheerful energetic personality and have remarkable intuition at seeing the good in others.My love of competition; specifically sport fighting is profound.My most remarkable ability is my will to succeed, my tenacity and persistence. I am always determined to push myself beyond my limitations, and never give up even when the odds are stacked against me. I also have fierce loyalty and morality. I am also a kind and empathetic person. Would you date me? Everything your describing is all psychological behaviors, The thing about human beings is that they get drawn to you physically first How tall are you? muscle mass? What type of clothes do you wear? If your like 6 feet tall, athletic, clean shaven, wears suits daily, I swear to you women will be drawn to you. Then they will listen to all this I am such and such and such. You can be the greatest guy in the world but if you cannot draw them physically, games over. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Scales Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 I am pure of heart. I don't have an ego or have any negative thoughts or feelings in me whatsoever. I also have a cheerful energetic personality and have remarkable intuition at seeing the good in others.My love of competition; specifically sport fighting is profound.My most remarkable ability is my will to succeed, my tenacity and persistence. I am always determined to push myself beyond my limitations, and never give up even when the odds are stacked against me. I also have fierce loyalty and morality. I am also a kind and empathetic person. Would you date me? If you like competition and sport fighting, then there is a high chance you do have an ego. Also, not having an ego is bad because you need it to be confident. I'm not saying big, but not fragile. No woman cares if you are empathetic, loyal, and pure. Like Sivok said it is about your ability to court. Your personal qualities are good, but they are not enough. Most of the time they play no role in the first interaction required to seduce a woman. They are things your woman can respect you for later. Link to post Share on other sites
Noproblem Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 You didn't tell me about your dreams about your ambition about your looks about the TV shows you watch and games you enjoy about your political stands about your life style and habits about the way you talk and walk about your background about the saddest things in your life and the happiest moments in your living I didn't even know if you are a racist or not... Nobody can answer this question, unless they meet you or talk with you in person then they'll decide. Link to post Share on other sites
SpringBaby Posted March 5, 2014 Share Posted March 5, 2014 The advice given by others about chemistry and how you treat a woman are right on track. I personally like gentleman and that goes a long way with quality women. You qualities and interests are fine. However, I think if you are looking for a relationship then you should focus on a type of woman or maybe someone you are interested in and see how it goes. There's someone out there who wants you just the way you are. Link to post Share on other sites
melell Posted March 5, 2014 Share Posted March 5, 2014 I am pure of heart. I don't have an ego or have any negative thoughts or feelings in me whatsoever. I also have a cheerful energetic personality and have remarkable intuition at seeing the good in others.My love of competition; specifically sport fighting is profound.My most remarkable ability is my will to succeed, my tenacity and persistence. I am always determined to push myself beyond my limitations, and never give up even when the odds are stacked against me. I also have fierce loyalty and morality. I am also a kind and empathetic person. Would you date me? It would depend on how humble you are. The empathetic quality is something I would look for. From your description though, I might feel that you are less able to relate when the other person is feeling down/negative- I think most of us get like that at least some of the time. I actually think being able to relate is one of the biggest factors in any kind of relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
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