jameslonn Posted February 26, 2014 Share Posted February 26, 2014 how do you cope with this? 1 minute everything to each other the next not talking which is for the best when you know the other is hurting too but doing the whole NC thing Link to post Share on other sites
StGeorge22 Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 Think you just can't take it personally. Having reconciled with my ex a few times I was interested to find out she was like when we were NC. Even though she dumped me based on our convo she seemed to struggle more in NC than I did. Think this is because she dumped me so had the pressure of the situation on her shoulders. Hang in there mate, you have acknowledged that NC is for the best and it probably is Link to post Share on other sites
Author jameslonn Posted February 27, 2014 Author Share Posted February 27, 2014 thanks for the reply its not an ego thing its just missing that person who not so long ago i was the the most important person in her life - now its NC and we both have to move on Link to post Share on other sites
StGeorge22 Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 Trust me mate, I completely understand. I've had some pretty big things change in my life recently and normally she would be the first person I'd share it with. But one day you will be a team with someone else, hopefully you get to that stage sooner rather than later Link to post Share on other sites
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