nedkelly34 Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 not pursue getting laid as much as possible? Both men and women? Being as slutty as possible (provided you do it safely) has ZERO downside. Allow me to explain: For men: Being prolific in notching as many women as possible brings experience, variety and is satisfying. It is looked on with envy by other men. It is attractive to women. Now don't start with all that hogwash- any self-truthful woman who checks herself will find they chased one or more of these guys in the past. For women: Ditto. Women may get catty and throw around insults but they're just jealous. They want to be the ones getting bedded by those alphas on the prowl. For both: In either case, once it is decided playtime is over, past history should be off limits. Don't ask, don't tell. If any sordid details get out, the SO cannot judge. These experiences go into the making of the person as they are now. They've help mold him/her. No regrets, no apologies. I just don't get all the people hung up on this. Usually they're the ones with issues, probably from all the self-denial (both physical and emotional). Cafeteria Catholics, re-born Christians ("re-born" being an acceptable way to get out of "I've been a very bad person". Hypocrites), and the holier-than-thou types who all found they couldn't hang in the free-market of sexual pursuit. No self-flagellation required, none wanted. Link to post Share on other sites
Chalkdust89 Posted February 27, 2014 Share Posted February 27, 2014 The best part of sex is the emotional connection that comes with it. I don't see how it would be enjoyable to sleep with someone you don't know or don't care about. I am not attracted to the "alpha males" you talk about and avoid them because I don't think I will get what I want from them. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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