Couple watching: women are always better looking than men

[Eternal Sunshine]

I don't know if it's everywhere but in my town, in 9 out of 10 cases woman is much better looking. I constantly see hotties with average guys. It's pretty depressing and possibly a reflection of skewed single men:single women ratios around here (single women over 30 far outnumber single men over 30)

[antonio1149]

I don't know if it's everywhere but in my town, in 9 out of 10 cases woman is much better looking. I constantly see hotties with average guys. It's pretty depressing and possibly a reflection of skewed single men:single women ratios around here (single women over 30 far outnumber single men over 30)

 

The ratio might be a factor, but generally speaking, women are far more generous in their beauty appraisals of other women than men are. So it could be that what you think is "beautiful" is really just average or slightly above.

 

I regularly observe the opposite. I see average-sized men with overweight women all the time, whereas I almost never see an obese guy with a slim, good-looking woman. This makes sense since just about every guy wants regular sex so they will make compromises in order to have a steady partner, and not be overly-concerned about the long-term implications, while women are usually looking for something "serious" so they will hold out for the best they can get.

[man_in_the_box]

I notice they usually equal out.

 

Same here, at least in the city. My university used to massively overpopulated by men but that has changed the last few years. I remember from those years that the ratio's of relationships were pretty skewed although that primarily was about whether people were able to being to get one or not. Not so much about relative attractiveness.

 

It's definitely proportional to absolute numbers of men and women.

[Grumpybutfun]

I don't know if it's everywhere but in my town, in 9 out of 10 cases woman is much better looking. I constantly see hotties with average guys. It's pretty depressing and possibly a reflection of skewed single men:single women ratios around here (single women over 30 far outnumber single men over 30)

 

I see that too so I don't know if it is just your area or not.

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[Emilia]

I'd say they are usually on par in my city. I look harder when one is more noticeably better looking because it's unusual. I look especially when it's a young, in-shape, good looking guy with a large girl, that's very unusual.

[Silly_Girl]

I'd say they are usually on par in my city. I look harder when one is more noticeably better looking because it's unusual. I look especially when it's a young, in-shape, good looking guy with a large girl, that's very unusual.

 

I agree that it's unusual, I do definitely see it.

 

It's odd/wrong that the scenario you describe stands out more (for me) than a young fit woman with a much older, bigger guy.

[Emilia]

It's odd/wrong that the scenario you describe stands out more (for me) than a young fit woman with a much older, bigger guy.

Probably because they are in a sports car whizzing past me rather than out in the street walking

 

I'm sort of serious.

[RedRobin]

In general, women tend to care about their looks more than a lot of men do. That might be weighing into your perception.

 

 

I agree that demographics play a huge role. I look at the guys I even decided to go on a few dates with around here or take a chance on... no way would I have done that in a place with a more equal male/female ratio.

 

 

I don't see me seriously dating any man I meet from this area....

 

 

If I can't find another job in my field, in a location of my choice... I'll join the Peace Corp. At least I'll be benefitting society while I GTFO of here...

Edited February 27, 2014 by RedRobin

[veggirl]

I've always noticed the same thing ES. Well either couples are evenly matched or the woman is the better looking one. I've noticed it with my own dating too...except my current bf who I do think is better looking than I am lol.

[Toddbt12y1]

Women are beautiful. And certainly take better care of themselves than their male counter part. The way of atteaction, I suppose.

[iris219]

I agree with ES, for the most part. Either the woman is better looking or the couple is evenly matched.

 

It is so rare to see a good looking guy with an unattractive woman that I would do a double take if I saw this. The reverse is so common, I expect pretty women to have average to below average looking mates.

 

There are more single women where I live as well.

[Frank2thepoint]

I agree, women are generally better looking than men. This is a good thing, because I like women.

[janedoe67]

I've never really noticed the ratio around here, but OP, if that is your real picture, I'd say you have nothing to be depressed about - you are very lovely!

[somedude81]

What about couples where the woman is really overweight? Is the guy overweight too?

[Els]

In general, women tend to care about their looks more than a lot of men do.

 

Pretty much this. Generally, if you spend time, effort, and money on something, you usually get better at it than if you hadn't. Women are more likely to spend more of all the above on their appearance than men do (obviously, with exceptions).

 

I think if you compare them fresh out of bed (messy hair, stubble, no makeup, no nice clothes that flatter the shape), it's probably more equal.

[central]

Where I live, I often see young couples where the man is good looking and fit, and the woman is overweight or obese far more frequently than I see attractive women with average or below-average men. Amongst considerably older couples, it is again the men who are usually fitter than the women, only now both aren't attractive for other reasons. The exceptions stand out, so are more noticeable, and thus may skew perceptions.

[Shepp]

I don't know if it's everywhere but in my town, in 9 out of 10 cases woman is much better looking. I constantly see hotties with average guys. It's pretty depressing and possibly a reflection of skewed single men:single women ratios around here (single women over 30 far outnumber single men over 30)

 

I would say most couples I see are pretty equal but I definitely see more attractive girls with averagy men than vise versa!! Its rare to see a trim & sharp looking guy with a less attractive girl!

[man_in_the_box]

So much people living in the Paradise City apparently.

[carhill]

I would say most couples I see are pretty equal but I definitely see more attractive girls with averagy men than vise versa!! Its rare to see a trim & sharp looking guy with a less attractive girl!

If possible, spend some time in a demographic where there are substantially more men than women.

 

As such is the case in my demographic, the trend I observe personally runs counter to that of the OP. In fact, two women I knew/know pretty well, one my exW and the other a former affair partner, both have more attractive male partners. In the case of the fAP, her boyfriend is additionally successful and comes from a wealthy family. Similar trends run throughout my social circle. Where it becomes more 'neutral' is in their children and grandchildren, many who've moved away to other demographics to complete their education and/or to work. Of the pairings I've seen, as well as at weddings, the young couples perhaps more closely reflect the OP's assertions, but still trending to neutral. Mixed bag.

[KathyM]

I see a lot of fit guys with overweight women. I also see a lot of very attractive women with guys who are just average. I guess it goes to show that many people value other things above looks. Of the slender guys I know who are with overweight women, those women have attracted these guys with their great personality. I also know some attractive men with very plain-looking women, but the women have these larger-than-life personalities that keep them attracted. Some people also are just not hung up a lot on looks, or the person has other really great qualities that attract a mate.

[thefooloftheyear]

Not here, anyway....

 

Its probably pretty evenly matched..Lots of middle aged men around here look very good for their age...Conversely many women are average to below average in appearance and body type...But there are plenty of sharp ones as well, as I said, its evenly matched around here..

 

TFY

[somedude81]

I see a lot of fit guys with overweight women. I also see a lot of very attractive women with guys who are just average. I guess it goes to show that many people value other things above looks. Of the slender guys I know who are with overweight women, those women have attracted these guys with their great personality. I also know some attractive men with very plain-looking women, but the women have these larger-than-life personalities that keep them attracted. Some people also are just not hung up a lot on looks, or the person has other really great qualities that attract a mate.

That, or the guys feel that they can't get anybody better.

 

Some men absolutely don't want to be alone and they will date anybody who is willing, whether they are attracted to her or not.

 

Also some guys are actually attracted to really big women.

[thefooloftheyear]

Pretty much this. Generally, if you spend time, effort, and money on something, you usually get better at it than if you hadn't. Women are more likely to spend more of all the above on their appearance than men do (obviously, with exceptions).

 

I think if you compare them fresh out of bed (messy hair, stubble, no makeup, no nice clothes that flatter the shape), it's probably more equal.[/QUOTE]

 

 

Great point here...

 

Most guys take 5 mins to get ready for the day while the average women takes hour(s)...They(men) dont have the luxury of slenderizing undergarments, makeup, fancy hairstyles, etc...

 

And lets not bring the cosmetic surgery thing into this discussion...Women do it and men generally...don't..

 

TFY

[Candy_Pants]

In my area it's generally obese women with smaller men. Neither being attractive.

 

I'm also in a rural area of the South. Out here my husband and I look like models!!! :lol:

[Shepp]

If possible, spend some time in a demographic where there are substantially more men than women.

 

As such is the case in my demographic, the trend I observe personally runs counter to that of the OP. In fact, two women I knew/know pretty well, one my exW and the other a former affair partner, both have more attractive male partners. In the case of the fAP, her boyfriend is additionally successful and comes from a wealthy family. Similar trends run throughout my social circle. Where it becomes more 'neutral' is in their children and grandchildren, many who've moved away to other demographics to complete their education and/or to work. Of the pairings I've seen, as well as at weddings, the young couples perhaps more closely reflect the OP's assertions, but still trending to neutral. Mixed bag.

 

True, I have no idea what the demographic is where I live, maybe guys are just in short supply!

 

I cant really think of a couple where the dude is substantially better looking...........but theres the potential for that to possibly be an age thing? I notice what you said about 'young couples'......maybe guys are less likely to commit and settle down you unless the girl is smokin'? I dunno, but being 20 myself, most couples around me that i'm thinking of are under 26ish.