haribogumsnickers Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 You should've hooped it up on the court to break his ankles and lebron lay up on his arse in your John Stockton shorts. He saw you with your guy friend and wussed out. Next time text him..."dude, my mom plays better than you". He'll be in the palm of your hand...literally like a famished dog. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
haribogumsnickers Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 Maybe he was busy doing his own thing? I'm certain he'll get back to you. Busy doing jack feces. No one is too busy to respond in a timely and courteous manner. This isn't high school. He'll get back when he's on the toilet and bored. Yeah just drop this dude...he's a tool. If I were him, I would be in your bed by now....I meant head in a good way like how rainbows and pink stuff make you happy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Iguanna Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 In my opinion he doesn't really like you (or hadn't thought about it until you asked for his number) and when you asked for his number he just thought to give it a chance and see how it goes. I guess he was expecting you to be "warmer" with him (like text him, amongst the rest you texted, "I'm looking forward to meeting you" or something like this), but you kept it friendly and he stopped caring after that. Bottom line is, he is not that interested anyway, so don't waste your time with him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author notyouraveragebabe Posted March 2, 2014 Author Share Posted March 2, 2014 Well that's a first. Never have a guy not paid attention to me. Guys are normally chasing me down; especially at the gym. It's only been a week; I can't expect anything from him. I should be happy that he at least text me to go workout. HE REMEMBERED MY DAY OFF He did ask me, why I didn't come in to say hi to him on the basketball court. I told him, I didn't want to bug him. Sounds like he's playing games, and I'm not into it. So bye! He text and told me he was going on a road trip this weekend which was true. This I know from social media. What he didn't do was setup another date with me, so sounds like he's not that interested or is gay. I did get that vibe from him. So if he is then, I was rejected because I have a vagina. Link to post Share on other sites
Author notyouraveragebabe Posted March 2, 2014 Author Share Posted March 2, 2014 Or maybe he's just a guy with options and notyouraveragebabe is looking pretty average. It's fun to watch a princess who is used to the world beating a path to her door having to work to get what she wants. You guys are mean! Rejection sucks!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 Well, there's your answer! Any guy who doesn't fall all over you is GAY! That was so simple. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author notyouraveragebabe Posted March 2, 2014 Author Share Posted March 2, 2014 (edited) Well, there's your answer! Any guy who doesn't fall all over you is GAY! That was so simple. So I'm going to walk away with my head held high still. His loss. Rejection or not, at least I tried; instead of wondered. Rejection is part of life. I should just put myself in his shoes, when I'm not interested in a guy I respond just to be "nice". Just because I'm nice doesn't mean I'm interested. I think he's just being nice. He has my number, if he wants to text/call me he would. Let's just see what happens tomorrow. Edited March 2, 2014 by notyouraveragebabe Link to post Share on other sites
erusaelptew Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 So I'm going to walk away with my head held high still. His loss. Rejection or not, at least I tried; instead of wondered. Rejection is part of life. I should just put myself in his shoes, when I'm not interested in a guy I respond just to be "nice". Just because I'm nice doesn't mean I'm interested. I think he's just being nice. He has my number, if he wants to text/call me he would. Let's just see what happens tomorrow. That-a-girl..... Now your getting it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mexcity Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 You might be right about the gay thing, lol. You'll be surprised how many gay men go to the gym and not all of them are obvious. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
JDPT Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 I'm not certain why there is this ubiquitous fallacy that if men aren't hovering over women, then by default he isn't interested. I don't gawk over women, when I see something I like I go for it and that's it. I never subscribe to the school of, oh there is a woman I must immediately talk to her and get her number. Hence why I don't understand why a mere "hello" immediately translates to "oh he is trying to hit on me" uh no, I was just being courteous and saying hello, I'm sorry if you thought it was anything beyond that. And I too have been the victim of "oh maybe he is gay..." I used to date a woman at work but decided to not make the relationship conspicuous at work. So, one of her friends decided she wanted to get me in bed and when I didn't give in to her alluring me she decided to tell the woman who I was dating "oh maybe he is gay....". It was humorous to hear my ex tell me that and add "if she only knew how much you like women hahaha..." so yeah the same game can be played on the other side of the fence. Link to post Share on other sites
JDPT Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 Or maybe he's just a guy with options and notyouraveragebabe is looking pretty average. It's fun to watch a princess who is used to the world beating a path to her door having to work to get what she wants. Indeed, in my book "gorgeous" or not you get the exact same treatment honey. It's embarrassing from a men's perspective to see other men literally drool at the slightest acknowledgement from a woman. I'm confident, good looking and know what I can get. I've been there, I've done it, and clearly don't abuse it. I talk to everyone and anyone. I'm just that type of guy. Actually, I like to put a smile on a not so "good" looking woman's face when I give her a little bit of attention. It helps us both. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
haribogumsnickers Posted March 2, 2014 Share Posted March 2, 2014 I'm sure that is rejection at its finest. If he was interested he would have responded right away. He's probably going to reply later with some BS message to be polite. It sucks. The guys I want doesn't want me and the guys I don't want, wants me. I'm just going to stop trying. This is why I don't chase after anyone. I find what you said to be so hilarious because it pretty much mirrors me. You should check out the only thread I started 2 years ago. Different circumstances but we both don't fully win. I lost from the start. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/transitioning/search/337331-why-d-she-give-me-her-number I blame love. I wasn't in love...I would've loved to find out though. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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