mike22 Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 im 17 years old and my girlfriend broke up with me about a month and a half ago.. we were together for about 2 months and i thought everything was going really well between her and me. but she decided to break up with me unfortunantly.. i liked this girl alot and i fell real hard for her. i defiantly took this hard and am still taking it hard. on new years, she said she wanted to kiss me at midnight, and i said it wasnt a good idea b/c i still wasnt over her like an idiot, i got drunk, and went to the party where she was at and hooked up with her. she told me she felt something when we kissed and that she wanted to start over as friends. but she just faded from me and we never did anything about it. She then told me she was over me about 2 weeks after she said that to me. i just started talking to her again last night and i have her AIM (AOL Instant Messanger, a program to chat with ppl over the internet for those who dont know what that is) and her profile and her away messages say things like this. **kiss slowly,love truely, laugh uncontrollably & never regret anything that made you smile **estos secretos... theres things i want to tell you but i never could **you make me smile, you make me sing, you make me scream you make me everything, you make me me. **no one ever made me feel the way you did she tells me she doesnt miss me, she tells me shes over me but she has these things in her profile/away messages. Now some people tell me shes gonna come back to me. Some people tell me i read to much into it. When i ask her about things like this, she cant tell me b/c shes one of those girls that has a real tough time expressing her emotions and feelings about me. i miss her so much and i still cant get over her. So, my question is to whoever wants to help.. does she miss me? is that stuff in her profile/away messages to me do u think? what do i do to get over her if i know shes not coming back? im having a real tough time getting over her and i need someone to help me. This might sound like a stupid high school relationship but i have feelings to and i need someone to help me cope with this. please help me. Link to post Share on other sites
concrete rose Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 Hey Mike22! Well heres what i think: I think the best thing for you to do right now is to have a period of no contact with her. No contact is good for many different reasons. It will help you move on. If your unsure if she misses you or not, No contact will let you know. If she tries to contact you, this may be a better indication that maybe she really does miss you. Read this post called "The Lost Guide to No Contact". It might help http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t54435/?highlight=Lost+Guide+to+no+contact I think you should ignore the AIM message names. To me, i think she might be just playing games with you. She might be just trying to get you to chase her. Don't chase her, let her come to you. If she told you to your face that shes over you, go by that, not by these message names! The message names don't have your name saying its to you, so they may have to do with someone else. I think your reading into these messages too much. Best thing for you to do right now is to block her off your AIM for a while. keep your chin up, your only 17 and you've got lots of life to live. Don't let this chick bring you down, its not worth it. There will be someone else out there for you who won't play games like this girl is doing! Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Author mike22 Posted January 23, 2005 Author Share Posted January 23, 2005 thanks alot. ill try that and see how that goes. anyone else got any other suggestions/thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
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