GirlWonder Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 Hey, I met a guy at a bar 2 nights ago, and we really hit it off. We talked for a few hours and found we had a lot in common. Well, when the bar closed I found my friend and the three of us were all walking out together... He hadn't asked for my number yet and I was beginning to wonder if he would. I quickly whispered this to my friend. As we went to say goodbye, she intervened and said to him, 'So, have you asked for her number??' He goes, 'Uh no, does she want mine?' I was totally put off by this - he had come up to me, why would he presume that I would want his number to make the next move? I just said hurriedly, 'Don't worry about it, see you later.' But my friend (being the thoughtful, drunken lass that she is) grabbed his phone and put my number in it. While we were all waiting for seperate cabs, he said to me, 'I'll call you if you want me to.' DUH! I hadn't been speaking to him for 3 hours for nothing! So I just said back something like, 'I'm sorry, I didn't want to force my number on you or anything. Whatever you want.' Then I kissed him goodbye (on the cheek) and went home. He sent me a message 20 minutes later saying, 'Hope you got home safe. Here's my number. x' So does he still expect me to be calling HIM?? By all other accounts, he seemed totally sweet. My friend thinks that he just isn't confident with girls. Having dated a lot of a**h***s, though, I'm more inclined to believe that he is too up himself to chase someone. I don't know! I really like this dude, but I know that the new rules say a girl should never never make that first call. Should I wait a week then message him? Or just leave the ball in his court?? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 23, 2005 Share Posted January 23, 2005 he already made the first move by approaching you at the bar so he can't lack that much in confidence. if you like him then give him a call. he already took a risk, now it is your turn. Link to post Share on other sites
USCboxer Posted January 27, 2005 Share Posted January 27, 2005 Yeah, it seems like he found a way around making the first call. I'm actually impressed. You have to get passed all these pre-relationship games. But in the mean-time!!!!!!!, If you know of anything you'd both enjoy but would definitely not be considered a date message him, then it's less of a rule-breaker for you. Moderator's note: Posting email addresses is against the guidelines on the forum. Please check out our guidelines on privacy. Link to post Share on other sites
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