nebulae Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 All I want is a guy that is average looking, not obese, treats me with respect and kindness and wants to marry and have kids. I don't know if it's because I look really young and it makes me look kinda ugly. I'm quite plain, but I have a big heart. I'm thinking I may have to settle to get what I want:( Link to post Share on other sites
Silver93 Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 All I want is a guy that is average looking, not obese, treats me with respect and kindness and wants to marry and have kids. I don't know if it's because I look really young and it makes me look kinda ugly. I'm quite plain, but I have a big heart. I'm thinking I may have to settle to get what I want:( Do not settle. Keep looking. You will find your Mr Right. Just stay positive, try a new way of meeting men and never give up. Good Luck. Link to post Share on other sites
ThatGirl213 Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 What you ask for are the minimum qualities a guy must be able to offer if he is looking to settle down... I understand the 'not obese' part. For reasons apart from looks, it is important a man is concerned about his health and fitness. Just keep your eyes and ears open. I am sure you will find someone with not only these qualities but someone who can offer much more than what you ask for. It will be worth the wait. Link to post Share on other sites
erusaelptew Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 All I want is a guy that is average looking, not obese, treats me with respect and kindness and wants to marry and have kids. I don't know if it's because I look really young and it makes me look kinda ugly. I'm quite plain, but I have a big heart. I'm thinking I may have to settle to get what I want:( If you don't mind me asking, what have you tried in the past to find what your looking for. Do you actually go out with friends and go on dates/online? Link to post Share on other sites
Author nebulae Posted March 3, 2014 Author Share Posted March 3, 2014 If you don't mind me asking, what have you tried in the past to find what your looking for. Do you actually go out with friends and go on dates/online? Only online, tried about 8 different dating sites for the past 5 years Link to post Share on other sites
Targetlock Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 I'm also trying to find the same things (but I'm a man of course), sounds like you need to try more options than just OLD. happy to chat if you want? Link to post Share on other sites
TheyCallMeOx Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 I'm curious to what you feel "average" is. If you consider yourself ugly, then would that be considered an "average looking" girl, or would that be considered below average? Link to post Share on other sites
Disillusioned Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 I could have qualified, right up to the kid-having part. I don't want to father anyone's kid. :-( Link to post Share on other sites
erusaelptew Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 (edited) Only online, tried about 8 different dating sites for the past 5 years Personally I find that online is the hardest to use when looking for someone with specific traits. It's too easy to fake it online. Online is good for meeting new people if you don't get out much, but between fake pictures, scams, people saying they are a certain personality only to find when you meet up.... Not even close. I also understand meeting people in every day life is a very different challenge for ladies than for men. Most of the time the man is expected to approach (Really Stupid Rule if you ask me) which means when a lady goes out to meet guys, you just wait....... Not very proactive. Im not saying go out and get rejected by a bunch of guys, Im saying go out with friends, meet other new people, get to know these new people as friends. Either you will find someone that way or your new friends might have someone you should meet. Let your old and new friends help you filter. Edited March 3, 2014 by erusaelptew Link to post Share on other sites
hasaquestion Posted March 3, 2014 Share Posted March 3, 2014 Only online, tried about 8 different dating sites for the past 5 years There's your problem. Why can't you meet people in person? Link to post Share on other sites
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