GarrusVakarian Posted March 4, 2014 Share Posted March 4, 2014 (edited) On Sunday night I found out my wife of two years who had been cheating on me last year finally got what was coming to her!. Last September I found out she had been having an affair with a 50 year old married man, 20 years her old who she met from Darts. She ran off back to her parents who let her run away from all it and believed all the garbage she fed them about me and everything Anyway, it turns out that in December the OM told my wife he couldn't see her anymore as he wanted to fix things with his wife. Apparently they had been getting on quite well and where trying to sort things. But since he was on holiday this week, his wife who was at home had been getting prank calls from some woman who would hang up when answered and they would occasionally leave a voice mail, saying your husband is still cheating, he is going to leave you, be warned. She had enough of this and finally turned up at her darts. It was finals night and everything has been totally blown out of the water. As soon as the wife knew who it was first thing she did was text the OM, who was out of the country. All the OM's family and friends now know. Apparently there was a lot of shouting directed at my wife from his and her family and friends. Her Dad who also plays was trying to defend his daughter got told a few home truths about his daughter he didn't know. Was told he was a great father figure for condoning her behaviour and he was as spineless as his daughter. But apparently, when confronted about all the sextexts that had been going on between her and OM. The wife replied it was just a bit of fun and it didn't mean anything. Was treating it all like the whole thing was a game and didn't mean anything. But she has now been humiliated and got what was coming to her in front of all her now former friends. Apparently she has been warned off from seeing this bloke or it will be at her own risk. But it ended with Wife saying to OW, I am going to call OM and tell him I am not going to speak to him anymore. But I am finally pleased she has got what was coming to her. Just a shame it didn't happen at the beginning and was blown wide open then. Situation may of been different. I haven't spoken to wife in over a month or so now and I don't intend to. But apparently she has been asking around as to whether I know what happened or has anyone told me and what I know about it. Edited March 4, 2014 by GarrusVakarian Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted March 4, 2014 Share Posted March 4, 2014 Don't be her fall back position. You dodged a bullet, she showed you who she really is, believe her. She left you for a much older married guy on your second anniversary, she is no prize. You have no children with her, just keep moving on. You can do your own divorce as long as you can agree on the terms. It is always best if you can have a lawyer do it for you but you do need to get it done and over with. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted March 4, 2014 Share Posted March 4, 2014 How did you find out about this? Link to post Share on other sites
Author GarrusVakarian Posted March 4, 2014 Author Share Posted March 4, 2014 A mutual friend told me. Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted March 4, 2014 Share Posted March 4, 2014 LOL! I bet you wanted nothing more than a recliner and a tub of popcorn to watch the show as it was all going down! LMAO!!! Classic! Now she's worried about what you know? Link to post Share on other sites
Author GarrusVakarian Posted March 4, 2014 Author Share Posted March 4, 2014 Don't be her fall back position. You dodged a bullet, she showed you who she really is, believe her. She left you for a much older married guy on your second anniversary, she is no prize. You have no children with her, just keep moving on. You can do your own divorce as long as you can agree on the terms. It is always best if you can have a lawyer do it for you but you do need to get it done and over with. Oh there is definitely no taking her back. I don't want anything to do with her. The only part of her social life just imploded Friday night, she has lost a large number friends Friday night that she has know for years. She has been publicly shown to be a liar and a cheat. Wish I had been a fly on the wall that night. But I was too busy enjoying myself with friends!. No way I am taking her back after the sh*t she put me through. Besides, I don't think she would have the nerve to try!. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GarrusVakarian Posted March 4, 2014 Author Share Posted March 4, 2014 LOL! I bet you wanted nothing more than a recliner and a tub of popcorn to watch the show as it was all going down! LMAO!!! Classic! Now she's worried about what you know? Yes I do, but I was enjoying myself elsewhere. I know all the details, but I am keeping tight lipped over the whole thing. Link to post Share on other sites
M30USA Posted March 4, 2014 Share Posted March 4, 2014 (edited) Any time a father fails to discipline his daughter (usually because he "loves" his little girl), this is what you always get years down the road. I would even bet that her mom ran the house and, if the dad ever TRIED to discipline her, the mom would undermine and overrule his attempts. It's textbook. I've seen it up close and personal. Edited March 4, 2014 by M30USA 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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