Is she cheating?

[Jonson]

So been dating a girl for close to 6 months and its been great. She goes out with her girls the odd time and keeps me in contact sometimes, but not always i trust her

 

 

She started a argument the other night about her daughter and took it out on me.

 

The thing last sat she was going out with her girly friends ok, and im like so hows it going she says ok im just watching tv, she got all wierd cause i said i was going out with my buddys?

 

so i did not here from her all night unsual and the next day she did go into work? she did not say any more about it. But she was a sweet with me in the morning.

 

Does this sound like a cheater?

[Chi townD]

Ummm......what?

[Jonson]

My girlfreind said she was going out with her girly friends, she was mad at me first caise i was going out. so she did not call or text me all night and did not go to work the next day. She has not talked about it since?

 

she sent me a sorry note on tuesday but this was after she was having grief from her kids and took it out on me.

[Chi townD]

Okay, well. That's a little clearer. Can't say for sure if she was cheating. But, she did not act responsibly. Chances are she was mad, didn't want to talk to you and may have crashed on a friends couch.

 

 

I would ask her where was she and why didn't she come home. But, to be honest, she's expecting those questions and probably has a viable and believable story at the ready for you.

 

 

If something happened that night, she's talking about it. Keep your eyes and ears open. Do not accuse her of cheating, she'll deny it and go over her tracks to make sure you don't find out. Act clueless and she'll make a mistake.

[lolablue17]

NO

 

She isnt cheating. Only was mad at you and felt sorry. whats your point?

[Jonson]

my point is she did not tell me about her night out or why she missed work?

 

but she was very sweet the next morning to me. I think she thinks Im mad at her for sat night which i am not, i dont mind her going out i trust her she knows this.

 

I know she was mad at me fair enough women do this sometimes.

 

TBH i think she is having a really hard time with her daughter which she has told me about and its been going on for quite awhile. She just had parents meeting today, she wanted to see me but she had to go to this and im like is cool your kids comes first.

 

I think she does not check her schedule alot and she orig asked to see me this day. She gets upset when she cant see me

 

I dont think she is cheating but sometimes after being cheated on in the past you cant help but think these things.

 

We dont live together

Edited March 6, 2014 by Jonson

[onemanband]

if u trust her y are you asking

[ctxinfl]

You don't live together and you've been together for only six months. Why does she owe you an explanation as to why she didn't go to work?

[Jonson]

yeah ok your right im gonna back off i do trust her and dont wanna mess this up at all. Im not gonna ask her about not worth it

[HomanWater]

So been dating a girl for close to 6 months and its been great. She goes out with her girls the odd time and keeps me in contact sometimes, but not always i trust her

 

 

She started a argument the other night about her daughter and took it out on me.

 

The thing last sat she was going out with her girly friends ok, and im like so hows it going she says ok im just watching tv, she got all wierd cause i said i was going out with my buddys?

 

so i did not here from her all night unsual and the next day she did go into work? she did not say any more about it. But she was a sweet with me in the morning.

 

Does this sound like a cheater?

 

I don't know if she's cheating, but she's disrespectful enough as it is. You should draw the line whenever she's taking her anger out of you immediately.

 

And start evaluating whether she's worth the hassle.