1life Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 Hey guys I was wondering if anyone had pointers on things I can do to keep my ex attracted to me. We both haven't spoke to eachother in almost 3 weeks we broke up 2 months ago. It's been tough but I'm keeping positive I know she still loves me but girls are confusing at times when they're angry.i want to bring the same spark when we first met. We are both going to a formal event this weekend and we are sitting at the same table I already know that I should dress to impress because she always complained saying after we started going out I stopped trying. Any pointers guys I want to sweep her off her feet and fix my relationship once again I'm not ready to quit just yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Kevin_D Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 Move on with your life. Show that you can be happy without you and that you can attract even hotter girls. Then she'll come running back. Of course, when ypu've achieved that, you probably couldn't care less about that narcissistic bitch. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 Disappear. That's your only play. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
BDL Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 That spark that attracted her to you when she first met you only happens once. She knows who you are. You're no longer a mystery. You can't ever really get that spark back. Move on with your life (lose the hope of getting back with her), be genuinely happy without her, and then you may have a chance in attracting her back in your life. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
melell Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 That spark that attracted her to you when she first met you only happens once. She knows who you are. You're no longer a mystery. You can't ever really get that spark back. Move on with your life (lose the hope of getting back with her), be genuinely happy without her, and then you may have a chance in attracting her back in your life. I agree with this description. When you spend long enough with someone they get to know you pretty well, and even if there is more to know- they think they know everything there is to know. The pretty much take on a mentality that makes it impossible for them to accept new information about you. They remain attracted if they never lost attraction, and time apart makes them remember. Or if enough time passes and you legitimately change, they forget you, and then meet the new you much later on. You won't make genuine good changes if you do it to win them back. You need to move on. If time apart makes them remember you, but you have been pining for them the whole time, then you will be taking a huge toll on yourself as an individual. Either way, set your sights on moving on, anything else will be detrimental. Link to post Share on other sites
Haydn Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 She`s got to sweep you off your feet now. If it happens you may not feel the same way anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
David87 Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 So you want to impress her... the only way to do that is to disappear and don't show up at the event. You're overthinking everything and you're trying too hard, by doing that you will push her further away. Link to post Share on other sites
HeartbrokenNewbie Posted March 12, 2014 Share Posted March 12, 2014 The most effective thing u can do is simply not go.. That will get her attention more than anything x Link to post Share on other sites
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