alexjames Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 I'm a 21 year old guy. My first ever girlfriend left me in February 2013. She was my first love and I thought life was perfect with her. We had our issues and fights, but all couples do. We done everything together, went everywhere together and were best friends aswell as lovers. I have never felt as comfortable with anyone else, and I could tell her anything. We were always with each other, pretty much lived with each other. I took her away for the week for valentines, and 4 days later, after getting home, she ended it after an argument. I have never felt so distraught, and a few times didn't want to live without her. I still think of her everyday, and miss everything we had. The closeness we shared was special, and I feel i'll never experience that again with anybody else. It still brings tears to my eyes now, I love her still, and I hate myself for that, she is with someone new now and that kills me. The stupid thing is, we were only together for a year, why do I still feel like this? I just want to be able to move on and forget about her, but I cant, I'd still do anything for her, even though she made me feel the lowest I have ever felt when she left me, over a year on I still haven't recovered! I feel stupid, pathetic and a mess!! Link to post Share on other sites
David87 Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 I'm a 21 year old guy. My first ever girlfriend left me in February 2013. She was my first love and I thought life was perfect with her. We had our issues and fights, but all couples do. We done everything together, went everywhere together and were best friends aswell as lovers. I have never felt as comfortable with anyone else, and I could tell her anything. We were always with each other, pretty much lived with each other. I took her away for the week for valentines, and 4 days later, after getting home, she ended it after an argument. I have never felt so distraught, and a few times didn't want to live without her. I still think of her everyday, and miss everything we had. The closeness we shared was special, and I feel i'll never experience that again with anybody else. It still brings tears to my eyes now, I love her still, and I hate myself for that, she is with someone new now and that kills me. The stupid thing is, we were only together for a year, why do I still feel like this? I just want to be able to move on and forget about her, but I cant, I'd still do anything for her, even though she made me feel the lowest I have ever felt when she left me, over a year on I still haven't recovered! I feel stupid, pathetic and a mess!! I put in bold what is the biggest problem in a relationship. Never get comfortable, always do nice things for your girl and win her heart every day. Watch this link. Link to post Share on other sites
Author alexjames Posted March 7, 2014 Author Share Posted March 7, 2014 I put in bold what is the biggest problem in a relationship. Never get comfortable, always do nice things for your girl and win her heart every day. Watch this link. As it happened, she actually used to complain that I done ''too much'' for her! Everyday I'd do everything for her, I'd look after her, do the simple things for her (cook for her, run baths for her, be a shoulder to cry on, sit in the bathroom while she was ill in the bath just holding her, you name it, I'd do it) but it just seems it wasn't good enough :/ I still would do anything for her, but ill never have that again, which makes me sad Link to post Share on other sites
David87 Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 As it happened, she actually used to complain that I done ''too much'' for her! Everyday I'd do everything for her, I'd look after her, do the simple things for her (cook for her, run baths for her, be a shoulder to cry on, sit in the bathroom while she was ill in the bath just holding her, you name it, I'd do it) but it just seems it wasn't good enough :/ I still would do anything for her, but ill never have that again, which makes me sad Well doing to much is another problem because the you put her on a high pedestal and your happiness depends on her. You have to maintain some sort of balance. Watch that link and will talk after 1 Link to post Share on other sites
guest572 Posted March 7, 2014 Share Posted March 7, 2014 Have you felt low the whole time, or has getting to the 1 year anniversary since the breakup spurred it on again? Link to post Share on other sites
Author alexjames Posted March 7, 2014 Author Share Posted March 7, 2014 Have you felt low the whole time, or has getting to the 1 year anniversary since the breakup spurred it on again? Been low most of the time. Think the empty feeling, and the thought of a future single etc makes it worse. I dated a girl for a couple of months towards the end of the year and it was great, and I was happy again, but when that ended, I went back to square 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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