uneek74 Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Bright: My A lasted 8 years too and been married over 30 years and I am over 50. XMM is 39. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 I'm not sure that he ever will marry her, he told me too many people would get hurt if he got with me.... The people in question can't be his children, we've already established he doesn't care about them and has decided to abandon them. (Not even mentioning the non-sequitur.) So who are these people whose future feelings are determinative of his major life choices????? People more important to him than his children? Or could they be just non-existent people (i.e. his explanation is a pile of cr@p)? Link to post Share on other sites
Sofie2013 Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 You're assuming now that she would have a choice, which is unlikely. I agree I don’t think she will be given a choice, but if she was to be given the choice I would still like to know. Link to post Share on other sites
Sofie2013 Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Bright: My A lasted 8 years too and been married over 30 years and I am over 50. XMM is 39. Did you ever have a Dday or did you end on it on your own terms Link to post Share on other sites
uneek74 Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 Sofie: It was a mutal ending this past Feb. Although we tried to end it at year six, we went on for two more years, with not as much intensity. There were a few DDays from his end (w), during the 8 years. She saw a few texts and once heard a conversation between us, nothing incriminating though. She made all kinds of threats but..... you know how that story goes. We still text each other from time to time, he more than me. Link to post Share on other sites
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