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Is my Ex Girlfriend really over me? Getting some mixed signals.


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Went out with a close friend of mine last Friday night. I was having a great moment till I noticed 2 if my ex's friends lurking about. And glory behold my ex was there too. We were playing pool and they took up the table next to ours.

 

I was trying not to pay to much attention to her, but I couldn't help but look in the corner of my eye. I caught her looking a few times (which is normal, she's been checking me out a lot since the break up) and at one point she had her back turned to me. I looked up and both her friends were looking at me. I raised my eyebrows at them in a way of saying hello and one of them smiled back.

 

After we finished the pool game I walked off with my friend and looked back at my ex and guess what? She was looking at me and quickly looked away.

 

I don't really care how sad you think I am if I've done this, but I've asked another close friend who so happens to be friends with her too to keep an "eye out" for her.

 

He told me a few days ago that he's 200% sure she isn't dating or seeing anyone else since the break up which was 3 months ago now - the relationship last just over a month.

 

I know she really, really liked me since she asked me to meet her parents after only 2 weeks. And every single time we'd lay down together in her bed to watch a film she would constantly stare at me. I think she was hooked, and so was I for that matter.

 

4 days ago I was outside a University with a coursemate of mine talking to him. In the corner of my eye again I saw my ex GF facing me for a few seconds then walking off.

 

I looked after her to be sure it was her and there's no missing the hair, the hand bag and the way she walks.

 

What's going on?

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Why would it matter if she wasn't. It's irrelevant.

 

I thought you would've guessed why it's so relevant. Because I still like her?

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It's pretty silly and difficult to make presumptions without the background story. You could provide more details of your past relationship if you want, but I think it would be in vain as it was unsuccessful once before.

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It's pretty silly and difficult to make presumptions without the background story. You could provide more details of your past relationship if you want, but I think it would be in vain as it was unsuccessful once before.

 

I was at fault, completely at fault.

 

I've sorter out my issues and I can safely say they have completely disappeared.

 

It was a short but very intense relationship.

 

It last lasted a month:

 

First week we had sex almost daily. Sex was to be almost daily till the break up.

 

End of second week she invited me to see her parents who both said they really liked me. At one point my ex went to the loo and they told how much she would speak about me and how they thought she had fallen for me.

 

3rd week we had already gone on two road trips together. I told her that she didn't need to come, but she insisted.

 

She was giving strong signs that she had indeed fallen for me:

 

We would lay down in bed together and watch a film and she would constantly stare at me. Without leaning towards me. Just stare at my face.

 

She constantly told me how she "really, really, liked me" that she felt as if we had known each other for a long time.

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