User1045 Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 Very aware of the saying ex is an ex for a reason. With ex gf 6 years. She broke up with me in June. She left because I didn't really seem all that into her. I'll admit I'm not a romantic guy but I treated her well. However I have a history with depression which probably made me distant from her so I see where she's coming from. Well she wants to come back to me. I'm split. Loved this girl to death, and 6 years is long to just throw away but can I count on her in the future when she walked away when I was depressed? I have yet to meet up with her as I haven't decided if it's a good idea yet. Opinions?
waytogo10 Posted March 9, 2014 Posted March 9, 2014 Little more details. Did you contact her in that time? No contact or limited contact? Did she contact you to reconcile? You or her see anyone else? Just off what you said, if you do, make sure you both know what is wanted and take it slow. Don't get hurt if you said you can't count on her.
Author User1045 Posted March 9, 2014 Author Posted March 9, 2014 Little more details. Did you contact her in that time? No contact or limited contact? Did she contact you to reconcile? You or her see anyone else? Just off what you said, if you do, make sure you both know what is wanted and take it slow. Don't get hurt if you said you can't count on her. Limited contact. She contacted saying she missed me. She was seeing someone before she wanted to reconcile. I dated 2 girls during our break up
waytogo10 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 If you want to go back, take it sloooooow. You both have dated other people. Both people have to be able to trust again. Make sure it's what you want. If your heart is not into it, don't do it.
Never Again Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 Additional question: Did she talk to you at all about your distance or lack of interest BEFORE breaking up with you? Did she try to communicate and resolve these issues, or did she just become unhappy and leave?
hudson701 Posted March 11, 2014 Posted March 11, 2014 I'm in the exact same situation as you. My depression took a turn for the worse this past month and my ex has gone running for the hills. It is absolutely killing me. But, if you can't take somebody at their worse you don't deserve them at their best.
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