jellybean89 Posted March 16, 2014 Share Posted March 16, 2014 I am well aware what could happen when DDay happen, we both have mutual level of respect for each other and I don’t believe he would ever do anything to hurt me, he does care about and want me to be happy. As for the trip, I already talked to my ap about. He agrees to be just a friend once we return. Affair partners usually think the above, but that is rarely what happens. I would say he does NOT respect you because he is putting you in the position of being the office **** that you don't want to be. He has no respect for you because if he did, he wouldn't want you to be his mistress nor would he put your job in jeopardy. Men who respect women don't expect them to be the hidden lover. Men who respect women treat them with respect and sneaking around isn't treating someone with respect. He doesn't respect you or your relationship with your SO...and by the same token, you don't respect him either. If you did, you wouldn't put his job at risk. I don’t think little of my So at all. I know he loves me and would do anything for me. I have never once taken him for granted. Actually, it's quite the opposite I believe he has taken me for granted he would not be in position he is in today if it wasn't for me. Baloney - you are taking him for granted by cheating on him. You may believe he would do anything for you - but I would bet he wouldn't be happy with you having sex with someone else while in a relationship with him. Men usually have issues with their partners having sex with someone else. What position is he in...besides the betrayed partner? You do realize he didn't make you cheat, right? You do realize your decision to be unfaithful is YOUR issue, not something someone else can make you do. You need to own your choices/decisions. Link to post Share on other sites
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