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Was with girl for years broke up in June. (She ended it) no cheating involved. Was considering getting back with her then found out she hacked my Facebook and email and got mad I was seeing other girls while broken up. She's 27 so shouldn't be this immature. Should I take her back? Can she change

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IMO 27 is still very young and yes, immature for more females that age than you would believe.

 

Should you take her back? Probably not. Usually when it's over, it's over for a reason and you should just leave it that way.

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IMO 27 is still very young and yes, immature for more females that age than you would believe.

 

Should you take her back? Probably not. Usually when it's over, it's over for a reason and you should just leave it that way.

 

I've never given her a reason not to trust me. She left me, I took 2 months off from dating then started seeing girls then she comes back

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Anyone that gets mad about who you talk to while you are not even together is insane. They will not change. Avoid at all costs.

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Anyone that gets mad about who you talk to while you are not even together is insane. They will not change. Avoid at all costs.

 

Thought so thx

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My two cents, yes that was a ****ty move hacking your accounts and then getting mad at you.....but not here condoning it....but people do really stupid things when relationships end....emotions are whack, etc etc

 

 

Why did she break up? Any signs of this sort of behavior previously? People take back people after affairs/cheating .. So I'd weigh out the pros & con's....dont rush it.... Only you know if its something you can forgive.... Only you know who she is....

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My two cents, yes that was a ****ty move hacking your accounts and then getting mad at you.....but not here condoning it....but people do really stupid things when relationships end....emotions are whack, etc etc

 

 

Why did she break up? Any signs of this sort of behavior previously? People take back people after affairs/cheating .. So I'd weigh out the pros & con's....dont rush it.... Only you know if its something you can forgive.... Only you know who she is....

 

She ended it when I was going through depression. Left me during hard times. Relationship was rocky with arguing. End was good besides breaking up

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The harsh truth is that when you take a woman back after she's dumped you, she no longer respects you. She may recognize that it is a generous heart that let her back in, but all the same she just can't feel the same about you. In fact, she resents you for not being able to move on and find better women. It screams to her that you don't have options and she is settling for a lesser male.

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