DayumQuitPlayin Posted January 25, 2005 Share Posted January 25, 2005 I just want to read your thoughts on what I'm about to say: I had these three female friends. I no longer socialize with them.. nor do I associate myself with them. Yes, we've had many good times together. Almost saw eachother everyday. But sometimes people need breaks, you know? You can get tired of seeing the same people ..day after day after day... especially when there's drama. Well, one night.. I was at a friend's house. Another girl was with us. I know this secret that involves 4 people. Basically it involves all of them.. and a husband. Well, this ex-friend of mine who is known for messing around with alot of guys.. she sleeps with a good friend of her's husband... which I think is wrong in the first place. Because if the other girl were to do that with her baby's daddy.. I'm sure she would really be upset with it. So BOOM! 1st thing is that she messes with her friend's husband. Number two, she denies the whole thing to this friend of hers and tries to get her friend's husband beat up for telling his wife what they had done. See.. that right there is wrong. But let me continue: This girl.. she's been raised to believe she's a little Princess. She has a baby who she doesn't really know how to take care of. Sure... she has her family who helps support her and her child.. she 'had' her baby daddy's help..who used to pay the bills.. and usually got her almost anything she wanted.. but because of certain circumstances they no longer are together. I used to think he was really good to her at times. I mean.. he would always do lil **** for her.. but because they've been with eachother for so long.. from such a young age.. I believe it has taken its toll on them. But that's not what I'm writing about... back to what I was talking about........ This girl really believe she's a princess. She wants everyone to do everything for herself. She doesn't know how to cook real food.. all she knows to do is how to heat things up and eat it. She doesn't know how to clean her house or to keep it clean, for that matter. She would always have someone come in to help her clean up... like ME for instance. I used to try to help her to develope these habits on how to keep things clean and situated properly.. but its never any use..since she doesn't follow it.. or she does.. but it's only temporary. She even can't carry her own child in her car seat. She would have one of us do it. She would have guys come over her appartment... smoking weed while her baby is asleep. I just think that's wrong. Well.. anyways.. she really be using alot of her friends. She's used me for rides, for doing this and that.. she's used other friends for this and that.. I can go on and on and on. Well.. She ended up sleeping with her friend's husband. She denied it.. and still denies it to this day.. she tried to get him beat up by her baby's daddy. She's gotten the husband's wife.. which is her friend.. to even believe her. She tried to make myself seem like a liar. When in actuality.. I'm only telling the truth. I'm totally against cheaters. I don't like people who cheat on someone..because if you feel the need to go and cheat.. then tell your partner that you want to go see someone else.. or just don't do it.. and stay with the one you're with. She would always harrass her baby's daddy.. accusing him of doing this and that.. when SHE'S the one who's doing it to HIM. It makes no sense. She has a guilty conscience and that's why I believe she's always saying he's doing this and that.. because she's so insecure about her own self. Well.. that night.. when I basically told this girl about what she had done. My ex-friend got mad at me. She basically brought up old **** from the past.. saying she's "taken me in" and "done alot for me" and "I've always been there for you" and **** .....which is BULL**** ..because I can say the same for her. I've always done **** for her and her baby and her baby's daddy. I've given him rides to his job so they can get money... I've taken her to places to hang out.. I've done alot. I've been there in her time of need too. I'm just tired of the same old ****. I'm done with her.. and with the other two females. I figure.. if I remove myself from a negative environment.. all that negativity will be gone.. and I will feel more better physically as well as mentally. I've got to learn to do things for myself for once. I mean.. I've done alot for other people.. which is a good thing to do.. but I gotta put myself first now. I know I'll miss the good times we've had.. but I have to concentrate on myself.. and do things that will better myself. I'll be starting classes soon. I've been working hard at this one job I have. I just gotta keep on track. Its just that I know she's wrong.. I don't know if she knows that she's wrong. I've wanted to help her become a better person.. more independant.. develope good morals.. good habits.. a happy environment and positive attitude.. but I guess she doesn't want all of that. Oh yea.. and another thing.. she does get all upset if one of her friends walks out on her. She takes it as a threat.. so to speak. It's as if she knows that if she makes one of her friends upset at her.. that's one person less that she'll be able to use.. whether its for money, attention, rides, or whatever. I'm not saying she uses all of her friends.. but she does get things out of certain ones. Well I'm done.. I dont know if this whole thing should be in this category or the "personal rants" one. If it needs to be moved.. Let me know. And ...thank you in advance for any comments made Link to post Share on other sites
Author DayumQuitPlayin Posted January 25, 2005 Author Share Posted January 25, 2005 Oh I forgot. They've even came to my work.. and she had tried to discuss one of these issues with me. I told her that I'm not interested in discussing anything with her.. and she refused to leave me alone. When it finally sunk into her head that I don't want anything to do with her.. she demanded her Cd's back.. and her baby stroller. Then she talked bad about me to her friend's mother.. who I work with. What a Bitch man... same **** she did at her baby's daddy place... trying to bring Drama Anyways... Im Outtie.. Link to post Share on other sites
SoftKisses Posted January 25, 2005 Share Posted January 25, 2005 Wow I'm sorry to hear that. i think that you shouldnt be with those people. If shes doing all that then you shouldnt have to take all that. yeaa dont hang with them anymore Link to post Share on other sites
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