wlmgsmn Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 Married 25 years,haven't had sex in 7+, neither him or I are happy. We don't talk and when we do we argue. He is so miserable he quit working and plays sick know, not what I married no-no. He is holding onto the old school idea of a marriage stays together regardless you nearly hate each other. Our children are grown we have nothing holding us together. Words of advice how to say we need a divorce to a man who is bliss to reality. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr.Milked Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 So exactly how much do you weigh? Link to post Share on other sites
Yasuandio Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 File for a divorce yourself. Off the top of my head, I can think of 500 ways to make the home legally unbearable, starting with changing your diet to kidney beans, chili, a Burger King Whooper with cheese once in a while, lentil soup, black eyed peas with ham-hocks. Everytime the torpedo is loaded, blow it off - load and clear. Even under the blanket. Are you mechanical? You just never know when something might happen at the house (like the cable going out during the game). It is very easy breezy to shut off the hot water when "you" are done with it (they do it all the in Europe). A loosened spark plug, or a fuse on the floor board - that you stepped on when you pulled it). Speaking of cars, Have you noticed how sloppy groceries are packed nowadays with these cheap plastic bags? My bags are all I've the back seat when I get home. Imagine, if a gallon if milk got spilled in "his" car. Dang. That would stink forever. Become a member of a Meet-Up Group. Something different, like Wicca or Goth. They are nice people, they met at same bookstore as my divorce group, I had long chats with several. Very interesting group. Once you get to know everyone, you can host a meeting at your house. Other activites you could take up are singing, belly dancing, anything that causes a disturbance. Get the picture? The trick is to mix up the little mishaps - but keep the beans constant. Yas Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 10, 2014 Share Posted March 10, 2014 Hire a lawyer. Move out. Serve him with a complaint for divorce. This defaults to the one who wants out. Link to post Share on other sites
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