engravefeelthevoid Posted January 25, 2005 Share Posted January 25, 2005 hi everyone, it's me again,well i did the things you told me about, i sent a message saying "hi sara how are you, how's the vacation? bored like me?" see now she's supposed to send back, but she didn't, i mean i showed i was interested but she never replied, and she's not one of those people who don't have credit, not forgetting it's not the first time this is done... something else, today we went to the mall and there were these hot two girls, we were sitting all together, till they both passed, they smiled at only me and i smiled back, i saw they turned many times towards me and my friends dared me to give it a shot, so when we were elevating on the automatic stairs and they were descending, i said "hi there... may i be allowed a question?" so they just bent down and laughed then went out of the mall!!?? what does that mean? my friends told me it wasn't my fault and that i was doing the right thing.. but i'm still not sure any helpppp???? Link to post Share on other sites
NiCoLe20 Posted January 25, 2005 Share Posted January 25, 2005 u shouldnt of said that lol ''may i ask you a question?'' u shouldve said something like ''hey there beautiful...." Link to post Share on other sites
Author engravefeelthevoid Posted January 27, 2005 Author Share Posted January 27, 2005 well she wouldn't have felt flirted, beleive me she would have been scared Link to post Share on other sites
Confused1 Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 How old do you think these girls were? If they were HS/College age they probably didn't know how to react. Did you just walk away afterward or did you stay and talk? Link to post Share on other sites
Author engravefeelthevoid Posted January 30, 2005 Author Share Posted January 30, 2005 well, first they were 17, second of all, i walked away cuz they didn't react, infact they laughed and went outside the mall!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Confused1 Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 Chalk it up to their age. Maybe I'm too old but I would have probably acted the same way at 17. Don't let them break your confidence. I also think that if you had stuck around they may have talked to you because they obviously liked what they saw but then your confidence made them nervous. Link to post Share on other sites
JoL Posted February 7, 2005 Share Posted February 7, 2005 Ahh dont' feel too bad. Some girls at this age are just naturally giggly when they get attention..even when they like the look of the guy! I know when i was 17 i would get SO embarassed when guys tried to talk to me..even the cute ones! Dont feel bad, you sound like a gentleman, i would much rather your approach than a guy saying "hey beautiful!" i would actually find that kind of sleazy and over-confident, like he is walking around the mall talking to every girl he sees. Sometimes the best way to meet girls is to be in a social setting when you have a chance to have a good conversation and get to know her and vice versa..like at a party, a sporting event..etc. Dont let it get you down! You seem like a gentleman, those are quite rare these days! Link to post Share on other sites
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