joseyposie Posted January 25, 2005 Share Posted January 25, 2005 I lived with my boyfriend for 6 yrs and we were engaged 1 1/2 out of those 6 yrs. He never talked about marriage and he was very abusive verbally and took my credit cards and charged up 35,000$. In Oct. of 2000 I left him and gave back the ring and moved home to my mom's house. He tried to ask me back on one condition I apoligize on leaving him while he was at work. I had an online friend coaching me to leave the abusive man and met me in houston to comfort me. My sister called up my exbf and told him I was cheating on him with my online friend which never was the case. So he thought I left him for another man. I told him no and then he told me I could come back if I apoligized and told my online friends and other friends good bye. In Feb of 2001 he found another girl he was madly involved in and asked for the ring back and married her a yr later. Do u think he was cheating on me since it has taken me 4 yrs and 4 mths and i haven't found anyone and he is married already? Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted January 25, 2005 Share Posted January 25, 2005 I'm not sure if he was cheating on you hon, but I can tell you that he sounds like a real jerk and I'm glad you are rid of him. 99% likely, he's abusive to his wife, too. Link to post Share on other sites
gypsycat Posted January 26, 2005 Share Posted January 26, 2005 Doesn't matter if he was cheating or not, sounds like a good move to have got rid of him. Don't go seeing the fact that he is married and you're not as some measure of his success in life. Feel sorry for the girl he is married to frankly. Link to post Share on other sites
Neechi Posted January 27, 2005 Share Posted January 27, 2005 I agree with the other two responses. I wouldn't be the least bit concerned about whether he was faithful or not. If I were you, I'd just be happy that I was rid of a guy that sounds like an abusive loser. Be happy that he is somebody else's problem and not your problem. Link to post Share on other sites
ziggue Posted January 27, 2005 Share Posted January 27, 2005 You don't wanna go back to someone that's verbally abusive. That's just as bad as cheating. Maybe even worse in some ways. Depending on what the situation is. Hope you read what everybody else has posted including me and take their advice stay the hell away. You don't wanna wreck a marriage or be the other woman. Remember he'll never change no matter how much he says he will. He'll always be the same. Think of what the girl he married is going through. Sure he'll be sweet and wonderful at first but she will find out what he is really like eventually. Just be glad you are not in that situation. Link to post Share on other sites
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