cdi_747 Posted March 12, 2014 Share Posted March 12, 2014 I am a 37 year old man... im in a relationship with someone (1yr) who I love very much and will do anything for me. She (37 also) wants the long haul with me. We have had our ups and downs and we have really both changed for the better for each other. We both would like one more child (she has 2, I have 1) My problem is that with some of our past problems with her anger and the way she acts when she argues (like a street fight) has turned me away form wanting that lasting connection just in case those things resurface. At this point I dont want children with her, and I probably would not marry her either. Even thought neither one of us want to remarry, we would just stay with one another. Even though she loves me very much and we could potentially be together for the long haul there are 2 things I would have to accept, not having another child and not being entirely physically attracted to her. She is not fat at all but I do like a little more size but not fat. This is very hard because giving up a great woman for other great things that I want in my life is very stressing. Any feedback would be appreciated. Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
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