FWB gone haywire - help!

[purple21]

yeah - you are definitely right

the problem was i was getting attached when i really shouldn't have been - new to this whole no committment fun thing - which is exactly how i should be looking at it.

i have definitely been better at playing it cool the last couple weeks - i think i'm finally at that point in which i realize what the situation is - before i knew in my head but my heart finally followed

 

we still talk via email here and there - which is cool because he is a nice guy and lots of fun

 

i did get a booty call text from him this past Sat - was sorta surpised - but when i responded back and asked when - he said "LATE" - wasn't quite sure what that meant and when i texted him back later - got no response so the next day i just texted him a funny msg "don't be a tease call me" and still haven't heard back which i expected and was fine with.

 

Well i was fine with it until last night after a few drinks - i swear they should take away my cell phone when i drink - i was just hoping to get an email from him at work or something just letting me know what happened, didn't need all the details just wanted some sort of response u know what i mean - i know it doesn't matter in these types of situations but i'm still learning I guess - so in my drunken stuper i sent him another text last night saying "no need to be a jerk - just wanted to be a friend ;)" yeah kinda dumb but it was what i was feeling - can't do anything about it now

 

Well of course this morning i run into him at the work cafe getting breakfast - i don't think i ever have the whole time i worked there but of course i did this morning - too funny. Anyways we both said hi and then he says - i got your text this morning and i didn't think it was very nice we are going to have to talk about it. I guess i was a little taken aback since i didn't think it was that big of a deal and it was early so i couldn't really think - just said - "oh yeah?" So he goes on asking me when i work til and that he will send me an email. At that point i just said ok and went on my way - i just really didn't know what to say at the time - a little surprised is all.

 

Well anywho - i'm leaving in 10 mins and haven't recvd this so called email - not really surprised i guess - just curious - but i am proud that i didn't send him one first today which is what i would have done in the past - (yea me) - i'm still awfully curious - i'll just wait and see what happens

 

Thanks for your response

[purple21]

well most of you are sick of this thread - but i'll update

 

and yeah - super fantistico - you are pretty hot - i'm in Buffalo, NY - we should talk more

 

hehe - anywho - i never recvd the email from Mr. Booty Call - so i sent him one today becasue i don't like sitting around forever - just said "sorry about the email the other night - just frustrated - don't like to be ignored - what's new with you"

he replied a minute later say he bought some new cd - he know i'm really into music - i emailed him back but he didnt respond - wasn't surprised - i know we would have such a good time together - but it's all him from now on - if he wants to contact me that is cool - if not - oh well for him - not gonna pressure him - but will have a fun time with him if he requests - yeah i'm single and i want to have a fun time - finally getting in that frame of mind

 

don't kid me not - i'm ready to date - but that guy obviously isn't - so since i like him i'll help him have some fun when he wants - some may think that is bad - but girls have their needs too my head is finally understanding the situation

 

have another guy that i met online - that emails me constantly - he finally talked about meeting in person tonight - so that is cool - i'm trying to play it cool though - the emails are fun - he emails me first thing in the morning - then all day and all night - i met him online - throught match.com - that is a long story but i joined for a month after ex did and a one night stand appeared as a match - anywho i emailed this one guy (thought I would get my $ worth) and we have been emailing constantly since - he does work at the same place i do - so that is kinda funny - but not in the same department. Hopefully we will meet someday but the email flirtation has been a lot of fun

 

the good news out of all of this is that my ex called the other night - and i felt like i talked to him out of pity - even though he broke things off last may - he told me how he was dating someone and it was missing something - i told him that he was new to dating again and to get use to it - didn't affect me at all - i didn't tell him of any of my encounters - but didn't care so that is the good thing - i'm definetly ready to move one - yeah for me :