ButterRum Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 My fiance broke up with me back in August and came back in December wanting to reconcile. Our biggest problem is communication. He feels as though I don't communicate with him enough and in some ways it's true but I am working on it! He is working on himself as well. He wants me to move back in with him about 300 miles away so we can work on rebuilding our relationship. I have some reservations as I have to pick up and move again while being worried that we might not make it. I have a job I can transfer from to get down there and everything seems like it could work but I find myself worried that I can't get get over being dumped and having to rebuild. Has anyone had a similar situation where they had the opportunity to move back in with their ex to rebuild the relationship? What hurdles did you have to face? Link to post Share on other sites
Kopite Posted March 13, 2014 Share Posted March 13, 2014 You have every right to be cautious butterrum. He broke up with you. Why should you be the one to move 300 miles away for him if there's a chance he will just do it again? If it were me, I would try again only if he were the one who moved 300 miles. This would show how serious he is about working on the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ButterRum Posted March 13, 2014 Author Share Posted March 13, 2014 Well to be honest I live in the middle of nowhere and we used to live in a big city (he's still there along with all my friends). In any other circumstance I would totally agree but there is no future for anyone here haha. I wish it was the other way around. I want him to show me he means it! Link to post Share on other sites
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