Miss.Sleepy Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 Don't know where this topic fits. I am not sure if Jealousy over random people is even the correct term for this, i don't know what to call it exactly. I only know how to describe it. Whenever i find out a man i know is either getting married or dating some new woman... I start thinking... why can't he date me or marry me instead of her? i am wayy better than the girl he is with. These are men i have zero interest in. so even if they asked me out. i would've rejected them. Yet I feel jealous when they are with someone. I also Sometimes feel that way over random strangers that i have never met. Example, if I go out and i see a couple on the street. I would think to myself. Why is he with her and not me? Another example is When i am watching a reality tv show and a real couple comes on tv and i start thinking why is he with her? i kind of feel silly thinking this way cos i know they are strangers!!! lol wondering if anyone else has ever felt this way? Link to post Share on other sites
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 14, 2014 Share Posted March 14, 2014 Nope! Now, do you feel this way when you're in a relationship or is it just when you're single? Link to post Share on other sites
ShyAndCrazy Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I do, and it's because we're smart and supposed to be the leaders in the real world. All these sites, for love and relationship advice, for anxiety and fear advice, really aren't supposed to be doing this. It creates weakness. We're the strong. And feel 'slightly bitter' because while we fought blood sweat and tears for it, some fools probably go online and get some date in 5 minutes because they join the crowd. You're not a crowd joiner. Neither am I. Yet, you and me, would likely pass each other in a store never even making eye contact. Link to post Share on other sites
Copelandsanity Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I start thinking... why can't he date me or marry me instead of her? i am wayy better than the girl he is with. These are men i have zero interest in. so even if they asked me out. i would've rejected them. Yet I feel jealous when they are with someone. You answered your own question. Because well, they can't Link to post Share on other sites
ShyAndCrazy Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 Where are you from? City/state? Maybe we can hook up I feel like crap and hate seeing everyone too. I HATE when some girl/woman talks to me and she has some boyfriend, but mentions his name in passing, it sounds lame, his name sounds lame, and so I can't be friends with her, yet, she's the only one txting me. Like right now. a 'friend' is txting me. I know she's there with her lame boyfriend, and he's probably being all stupid and goofy with his whiney voice, and I'm the soldier here alone, waiting to go protect her, yet there is nothing to protect her from. Wimpy boys get the girl now. Damn internet. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 i am wayy better than the girl he is with. I don't mean to be rude, but you sound arrogant and full of yourself. You look down on any woman who is marrying a guy you know, and you think you're better, even though you'd reject him anyway. Did you have a lot of competition with your siblings growing up or have girls steal away your boyfriends years ago? or recently? Link to post Share on other sites
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