kellyk Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 Hi guys! This is my first post here. I went on a date last Tuesday with a great guy. We had coffee for 3 hours, talked, and visited a couple of bookstores together, so I figured it was a pretty good date! When he helped me flag a cab to go home in, he gave me a hug and told me that we should hang out again soon and I of course said yes! Since I knew he had a dinner with friends in the evening and I didn't want to interrupt him with a text. I waited till about 10 that night to drop him a short text saying thank you for the date, I had a really great time, and a random line about something we had laughed about earlier. Cue 4 days later, still no reply. He's a very busy guy, and owns and runs his own restaurant. But I don't know if this is him not being interested, or just busy? I'm planning on dropping him a text on Tuesday just saying hello and how's he doing. I don't want to bug him if he's not interested in going out again though! What do y'all think? Link to post Share on other sites
soLoveIS Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 So glad you post. When a Guy you first had a date with mentions you should hang out again. You really should wait. He could be busyLet him Chase You, or you may seem pushyIf he has own Business, he is independentConsider you are not the only Women he is datingDon't Act on Impulse Think Things Through Link to post Share on other sites
Mascara Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I think the absolute last thing you should do is text him again. He knows what he's supposed to do, and you've already made a move. Nobody is so busy that they can't reply to a text from someone they're excited to have met. His silence is your answer. 8 Link to post Share on other sites
GemmaUK Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I think the absolute last thing you should do is text him again. He knows what he's supposed to do, and you've already made a move. Nobody is so busy that they can't reply to a text from someone they're excited to have met. His silence is your answer. This ^^^ Don't text him again. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 I don't see anything wrong that he didn't text you back yet. Your text was a thank you text and doesn't really need a reply. And not everyone texts back and forth all the time or wants that much communication. I would not text him anymore and would just wait. You made it clear you liked the date and he knows that now. Just wait. If he's interested, you'll hear from him sometime. If you keep texting, that is desperate, and desperate isn't at all attractive. Link to post Share on other sites
Tina747 Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 You already texted him once... I wouldn't text again unless he replies. In my opinion, in short of an emergency, there is really no excuse for him to not text you back for four days. I think it's lame...I'd move on.... Link to post Share on other sites
kiss_andmakeup Posted March 15, 2014 Share Posted March 15, 2014 Yep, don't text him again. Ball's in his court. If he wants to continue then he'll get in touch. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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