NYC-BigKat Posted March 16, 2014 Share Posted March 16, 2014 Um...I'm really starting to think it yea . Like yesterday there was a b-day party for one of my cousins in queens & there was lots of cousins there & uh one of them started asking about my love life & wanted to hang out with me & then sat on my lap. I felt like she was flirting with me . Um... it was also weird when one of my aunts started talking about my so-called sleazy uncle & how he fooled around with lots of cousins & my mom got so so angry & argument broke out. Then one of my other cousins was sitting on my other uncle's lap & he was playing with her hair & massaging her arms & shoulders a lot. I don't know what to think about all this. Its very weird stuff u know . Link to post Share on other sites
Hello_is_it_me Posted March 16, 2014 Share Posted March 16, 2014 First cousin = off limits Second cousin (not hot) = off limits Second cousin (hot) = go for it 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted March 16, 2014 Share Posted March 16, 2014 Hey Kat, I don't know of there's a question in there, but I'm glad to hear that you recognize the situation as 'weird', or not normal. Any luck with your job search? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted March 16, 2014 Share Posted March 16, 2014 Maybe you should try spending some time with people other than your family and cousins? Go out with your friends and meet women you're not related to. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author NYC-BigKat Posted March 16, 2014 Author Share Posted March 16, 2014 Hey Kat, I don't know of there's a question in there, but I'm glad to hear that you recognize the situation as 'weird', or not normal. Any luck with your job search? No luck yet. Its like the company keeps posting jobs after jobs but none of them actually hire anyone 'cause they keep posting so many jobs u know. I also found out that craigslist is a scam with bunches of fake jobs. Um...it did feel weird 'cause my cousin kept giving me this look & wanted to just keep talking to me the whole time & another cousin looked annoyed & sad & I'm thinking maybe she was jealous? This is really really something & with my aunt talking about my uncle's past which I already asked him about & he didn't deny it got me thinking my family is messed up & that's why I have a lot of issues too I guess . Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted March 17, 2014 Share Posted March 17, 2014 it got me thinking my family is messed up & that's why I have a lot of issues too I guess . My family is kind of messed up, but I'm come a long way in overcoming their legacy. Just because your family is messed up doesn't mean you have to be messed up, too. Rise above all that and do your own thing. It is not easy, but possible. Link to post Share on other sites
StanMusial Posted March 17, 2014 Share Posted March 17, 2014 BigKat, where is your family from? I mean which country? Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted March 17, 2014 Share Posted March 17, 2014 If this keeps up, this poor guys family tree is going to look like a stump. I don't know what to tell you partner but it sounds strange. Go find a girl outside the family and be happy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
tbf Posted March 17, 2014 Share Posted March 17, 2014 It's not just the girls in the family that have problems. Get out of this situation as fast as humanly possible. There's a reason why Prince Charles and other members of assorted royal families are so odd and odd looking. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author NYC-BigKat Posted March 17, 2014 Author Share Posted March 17, 2014 If this keeps up, this poor guys family tree is going to look like a stump. I don't know what to tell you partner but it sounds strange. Go find a girl outside the family and be happy. I haven't been able to find anyone & my cousin text me this morning & she wanted to know what I was doing today then she complimented me on my body . She says she likes husky guys & that I have nice eyes & she wanted to know what I think about her. I don't know what to tell her u know 'cause now I cant stop thinking about her. Oh, I'm born here but my family is broken into 3 parts & its DR, PR & Colombia Link to post Share on other sites
MidwestUSA Posted March 17, 2014 Share Posted March 17, 2014 Well, what did you tell her? Link to post Share on other sites
Shaun-Dro Posted March 17, 2014 Share Posted March 17, 2014 I haven't been able to find anyone & my cousin text me this morning & she wanted to know what I was doing today then she complimented me on my body . She says she likes husky guys & that I have nice eyes & she wanted to know what I think about her. I don't know what to tell her u know 'cause now I cant stop thinking about her. Oh, I'm born here but my family is broken into 3 parts & its DR, PR & Colombia Are you serious here, Big-kat? The cousin-to-cousin affair in the works? I'm stunned, I tell you, just stunned. But on a serious note, I really don't care about your interest in her or them, for that matter, but it's wise to not have sex. Too much trouble that really won't be worth the trouble down the line. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NYC-BigKat Posted March 18, 2014 Author Share Posted March 18, 2014 Well, what did you tell her? I told her that she's pretty yup. Now she wants to come & get me tomorrow so we can go to the movies & then go to dinner & talk. I don't know what to do right now . Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 No luck yet. Its like the company keeps posting jobs after jobs but none of them actually hire anyone 'cause they keep posting so many jobs u know. I also found out that craigslist is a scam with bunches of fake jobs. Um...it did feel weird 'cause my cousin kept giving me this look & wanted to just keep talking to me the whole time & another cousin looked annoyed & sad & I'm thinking maybe she was jealous? This is really really something & with my aunt talking about my uncle's past which I already asked him about & he didn't deny it got me thinking my family is messed up & that's why I have a lot of issues too I guess . Your aunt was warning you, albeit in a very bitchy way. First cousins are ok in some places, even some places in the US. Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 I told her that she's pretty yup. Now she wants to come & get me tomorrow so we can go to the movies & then go to dinner & talk. I don't know what to do right now . Setup heavy boundaries, don't get involved with someone in your own family ffs. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Celleste Posted March 27, 2014 Share Posted March 27, 2014 Um...I'm really starting to think it yea . Like yesterday there was a b-day party for one of my cousins in queens & there was lots of cousins there & uh one of them started asking about my love life & wanted to hang out with me & then sat on my lap. I felt like she was flirting with me . Um... it was also weird when one of my aunts started talking about my so-called sleazy uncle & how he fooled around with lots of cousins & my mom got so so angry & argument broke out. Then one of my other cousins was sitting on my other uncle's lap & he was playing with her hair & massaging her arms & shoulders a lot. I don't know what to think about all this. Its very weird stuff u know . It is very strange but it does happen amoung some families. I don't think it's normal. You're better off dating people you're not related to. Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted March 28, 2014 Share Posted March 28, 2014 Ever see the movie Deliverance? Remember the banjo player? I'm just sayin'. Link to post Share on other sites
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