Highschool Posted March 18, 2014 Share Posted March 18, 2014 (edited) 1st year of university atm, I have some time now so here's some insights. I'd apprecite feedback! --- I've only really "asked out" a few girls in my life. I'm 18 atm, and I'm wondering if that's why this numbers game isn't working out for me. I've tried to take a break, and take some time to focus on myself. So now I'm doing great in everything besides my romantic life. Long story short, I asked out a girl last term that I'm assuming won't go anywhere, we were close but now don't talk as much. This term that girl wanted to help me with this other girl (only because I couldn't get the other girl alone to ask her out), she said they talked about me but the other girl said she was interested in a guy that went to her church. So trying is going to be pointless. I'm pretty confident, but this does 0 for me in the dating world (I guess I get results at parties/dances though ). A friend of mine who is very shy asked out a girl who he had a massive crush on, she said yes and they've been happy together for a few months. I wish stuff worked out as well for me! I know I didn't give much detail about girl 1, but long story short we had a lot of nice times together/eventually a long romantic talk about us potentially dating, and then little hangout-date things that ended in me realizing that I was hoping for something (when she had said during our talk that she couldn't date). She met my mom during our last one, and my mom said she thought it would be best to not try dating her. I thought it would be best to distance myself a bit, but now I'm starting to miss her. Girl 1 has some problems with depression (family stuff too), ironically I have depression problems too but I never told her. My parents think we'd be bad together, especially my mom after meeting her (she seemed down last time we hung out, but I found out something after that made sense as to why she'd be down). So oh well, even if she came around it might be a train wreck. I guess I just try to get back out there somehow? Or should I try again with one of these girls? Is it better to stop talking to these girls? Or should I set up a hang-out date with someone? Edited March 18, 2014 by Highschool Link to post Share on other sites
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