My husband wants me to pose nude for Internet porn sites.

[Blueangel]

[color=blue][/color]OK, I really need some help on this one guys. My husband has lied to me about the stupidest things here lately. On this one I need some advice. I am a stay at home mom my husband is away often with his job, but he still pays the bills.

 

 

I guess my question is I even though he does this,I just found out today that he has another bank account. Therefore I am torn so help me out please! technically this is his money should I be upset? We have only been married a year and 5 months. Is it not his business what he does with his money if if he lies to me about it? Now keep in mind all the bills and food are taken care of.

 

 

 

If it helps at all we are a young couple, the reason why I am giving this information is because my mother often says that since my husband is a tad bit younger than me that he needs time to mature and stretch his legs if you will.

 

 

 

Is this true? I think he has a real problem with lieing how do I get him to get help without offending him?Also do you think this is something to leave him about? please please help!

[Ladyjane14]

There could be many different reasons for this. He may not trust that you will be responsible with the money, and may want to squirrel a little bit away for the sake of security. Or, he could want to have some access to money that he can spend without you knowing what it was spent on.

 

So this could be innocent....or not. Either way it needs to be addressed. I can't see why he would be "offendeded" by having this talk with you.

 

It's not good for young girls to be totally reliant on their husband's income and fiscal knowledge. That's my opinion, others might disagree. You can still be a stay-at-home mom, and be knowledgeble about finances. You'll need to become proactive in bill-paying and look for ways to build personal credit.

 

If this continues to be a problem, you may have to consider getting a job, or studying for a career at a later date.

[FolderWife]

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[Scott S]

Originally posted by Monday

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I noticed.

[Scott S]

Originally posted by Monday

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A bit late, perhaps, but here it is:

 

I saw a classified ad the other day. It read: "FREE PUSSY!" then in much smaller type "Kittens for good homes"

[RecordProducer]

I ABSOLUTELY agree with LadyJane. Obviously your husband is not willing to share all the money he makes with you. If now when you're at the very beginning with a baby he does that then what will he do later when the sparkle is gone?

He might be under the influence of his family if he hides his account.

According to the law, all assests are mutual. Perhaps you could talk to some legal adviser about whether what he is doing is against the law and what your rights are overall.

If the money is technically his then the children are technically yours, because you take care of them and you risked your life to deliver them.

It could be just money he had from before you got married. Why would you not want to offend a liar by telling him that he is a liar?!?!

Is he physically abusive? Has a bad temper?

He doesn't need help for lying as if it's some kind of terrible disease. He needs someone to kick his ass!

Anyhoozes, if Cocco Channel said "Ladies, be always made up and dressed up; you never know when the man of your dreams will show up!", I would say to the unhappily married women:

"Ladies, be always financially and emotionally independent; you never know when a divorce could happen!"

[life loser]

but the real question is... would you pose nude for him for an internet porn site?

 

just kidding...

 

tell him to grow up or get lost before you have kids with him

[Donut]

Just playing devils advocate here, but if he has another bank account that he's hidden from you and is "away alot" that would indicate cheating.

 

What does he do for a living?