Article : most women don't deserve a good man.

[chucksagent]

I'm telling you all right now...I hear sooooooo many women say "I'm not settling, I want the perfect man...why can't I find the right guy?"

 

And then I hear my guy friends say pretty much the same thing, save the "perfect" part.

 

Everything has a cause and effect. Why today dating is so hard and so many people flake out, there HAS to be something causing it.

 

Maybe all the participation trophies and BS we feed our kids telling them how perfect they are. When really, nobody is perfect...not even close. We lie to our children a HEALTHY amount and we all justify it by "it's best for them." I don't think lies and deceit are EVER the best choice...I think honesty and acceptance and learning to deal with uncomfortable truths are best. But what the heck do I know.

[joystickd]

I'm telling you all right now...I hear sooooooo many women say "I'm not settling, I want the perfect man...why can't I find the right guy?"

 

And then I hear my guy friends say pretty much the same thing, save the "perfect" part.

 

Everything has a cause and effect. Why today dating is so hard and so many people flake out, there HAS to be something causing it.

 

Maybe all the participation trophies and BS we feed our kids telling them how perfect they are. When really, nobody is perfect...not even close. We lie to our children a HEALTHY amount and we all justify it by "it's best for them." I don't think lies and deceit are EVER the best choice...I think honesty and acceptance and learning to deal with uncomfortable truths are best. But what the heck do I know.

It's a small part but the biggest part is the fact that men and women refuse to work on their own problems. It's easy to blame the opposite sex: ex. Men push for sex early or women want bad boys. You have to change yourself because you can't make other people change. Dating is hard because people haven't dealt with those issues and they bring that BS to every new person they meet. Why give a new person the BS you should have given the person before them? Some men/women are out here dating and need to take time off and get help. It's like they are vets back from war with severe PTSD.

[chucksagent]

It's funny you say that because EVERY girl who denied me or flaked out on me that I was close to and knew and thought we could have a good relationship and ultimately I was rejected...in EVERY case, it turned out in the long run, I was LUCKY to avoid all the psychological issues those girls had. Cause we all know that **** comes out over time and with social media and networks the way they are, I still know all the girls and see what's going on in their lives, and I dodged a few bullets.

[crederer]

I think the author is generally pretty butt hurt. But he does have some valid points. I know many girls that fit some of the descriptions he laid out in the article.

 

There are a lot of women that are pretty self entitled and want it all. Of course this isn't the norm. But at the same time a lot of women that complain there aren't enough good guys out there are the same ones that are attracted to *******s and it's plain as day. For one reason or another the qualities that jerks have are the same qualities that they find attractive and then get upset when they get burned.

 

This one girl I know is constantly going after low lifes and thugs because she thinks they're hot and time and time again she gets burned then complains about guys in general. It's so obvious to everyone around her. She likes bad boys, dates drug dealers, she even dated a pimp once. Like wtf are you thinking you idiot? Her most recent boyfriend was brandishing a gun on fb and talking about picking up hoes at the club while dating her. I get tired of hearing her complain about it to be honest. She brings it all on herself.

 

You get what you put out there.

[Woggle]

I think the author is generally pretty butt hurt. But he does have some valid points. I know many girls that fit some of the descriptions he laid out in the article.

 

There are a lot of women that are pretty self entitled and want it all. Of course this isn't the norm. But at the same time a lot of women that complain there aren't enough good guys out there are the same ones that are attracted to *******s and it's plain as day. For one reason or another the qualities that jerks have are the same qualities that they find attractive and then get upset when they get burned.

 

This one girl I know is constantly going after low lifes and thugs because she thinks they're hot and time and time again she gets burned then complains about guys in general. It's so obvious to everyone around her. She likes bad boys, dates drug dealers, she even dated a pimp once. Like wtf are you thinking you idiot? Her most recent boyfriend was brandishing a gun on fb and talking about picking up hoes at the club while dating her. I get tired of hearing her complain about it to be honest. She brings it all on herself.

 

You get what you put out there.

 

If she is attracted to that she is just as bad as they are. Looks like she is dating on her level.

[crederer]

If she is attracted to that she is just as bad as they are. Looks like she is dating on her level.

 

Yah but it's weird because if you hang out with her she's a nice and normal person and attractive that was raised in a loving home. It's so weird that she goes for that. But I agree, I don't feel bad for her. I'm not saying all women are like this either but it's not uncommon.

[Woggle]

Yah but it's weird because if you hang out with her she's a nice and normal person and attractive that was raised in a loving home. It's so weird that she goes for that. But I agree, I don't feel bad for her. I'm not saying all women are like this either but it's not uncommon.

 

So she is a typical suburban girl who wants to go on a hood safari. Am I right? They are a dime a dozen.