KathyM Posted March 24, 2014 Share Posted March 24, 2014 I think a lot of women would decide you are not that interested if you wait two weeks before contacting them. That has been the experience of the men I know who did wait too long before setting a date. The woman will think you are not that interested, and she'll invest her time in men who show more interest. Women will also be inclined to think that you don't make relationships a priority in your life. There's a difference between being indifferent or passive, and being independent and having a well rounded life where you are not desperate for female attention. What you showed is indifference and passivity, and did not show enough interest or that you valued getting to know her. Don't wait so long after getting a number before you call them to set up the date. The woman will lose interest or think that you are not that interested. You need to establish momentum, and romantic interest. Don't wait more than a few days before calling someone who has expressed an interest in getting together. Link to post Share on other sites
hotpotato Posted March 24, 2014 Share Posted March 24, 2014 If you honestly can't see what you did wrong, you will have a very hard time in the dating world... Link to post Share on other sites
Author irc333 Posted March 24, 2014 Author Share Posted March 24, 2014 (edited) If you honestly can't see what you did wrong, you will have a very hard time in the dating world... I would believe this would apply to most people in the dating world these days. One cannot spend time thinking what they did wrong because what may be wrong for some may not be wrong for others. Edited March 24, 2014 by irc333 Link to post Share on other sites
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