MarcoInaros Posted March 19, 2014 Share Posted March 19, 2014 So what should I do now that I am 34 years old and have no experience with women, even though I am completely straight and always have been. I haven't even kissed a girl. But I am a self sufficient adult who has a decent job, lives on his own, has a masters degree, and saved a down payment for a house. Reflecting on my life so far (which I have been doing a lot lately) I realize that I have missed several chances. In those brief instances when I had a chance, I hesitated and didn't try. I wouldn't be in this situation if I had tried, and not been so shy. It's my fault. This is making me depressed, especially when I know girls my age have a ton of experience already and are getting ready to settle down. The last thing I want to do is seek professional help, but I wish I had someone to talk to. I was thinking of asking a female quasi friend I know and asking her what her opinion was on my situation. Is that a good idea? Link to post Share on other sites
jba10582 Posted March 19, 2014 Share Posted March 19, 2014 (edited) If you have time, get a dog, join a group, join a gym, a church, a volunteer group, of find a way to move to a better location. Depression is something that seems to come on in pulsating rhythms for me and I don't know if its that or lack of the things that were, so I try and enjoy what I have a try and either slow down my overactive mind or keep it occupied with something... and sorry, to answer your question, I think its always a good idea to talk to someone else about things that can help you resolve them. Edited March 19, 2014 by jba10582 Link to post Share on other sites
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