Told to go

[Hillary]

My boyfriend and myself broke up months ago because he chooses to spend his weekend clubbing with the guys and I suspect, with some girls as well. I felt much abandoned.

 

However, he had been calling everyday since and, that's making leaving my emotions alone, recovering from my hurts very difficult. Last night I asked to stop calling me totally. I feel lousy about it bcoz I know I had probably hurt him but the calls come week days, disappear weekends and basically reminded me constantly of how worthless I am.

 

I miss him in my life; somehow without his love, nothing elses matters. But I have been given an intellgience to choose and I utilised it to the best of my ability so, there is really no choice but to cut it off.

 

And to send a spear through your most beloved's, is probably the last thing I would want to do but I did. I can't strike a balance in my mind about this, can some one help me please?

[heather]

My boyfriend and myself broke up months ago because he chooses to spend his weekend clubbing with the guys and I suspect, with some girls as well. I felt much abandoned. However, he had been calling everyday since and, that's making leaving my emotions alone, recovering from my hurts very difficult. Last night I asked to stop calling me totally. I feel lousy about it bcoz I know I had probably hurt him but the calls come week days, disappear weekends and basically reminded me constantly of how worthless I am. I miss him in my life; somehow without his love, nothing elses matters. But I have been given an intellgience to choose and I utilised it to the best of my ability so, there is really no choice but to cut it off. And to send a spear through your most beloved's, is probably the last thing I would want to do but I did. I can't strike a balance in my mind about this, can some one help me please? Hi hillary

 

sounds like you didn't have a whole lot of options with the party boy. when you really miss him and want to contact him, remember how you felt spending the weekends by the phone. it's really nice to be with a man who wants to spend his spare time with you. i've been there -- best wishes and good luck finding a guy who wants a 7 day/week relationship- it's well worth the wait