s.loks1622 Posted March 21, 2014 Share Posted March 21, 2014 (edited) okk before anything, this may be a long and very heart breaking story....if you read and comment back i would very much appreciate it from the bottom of my heart here it goes, im 21 yrs old and i have a lil brother whos 17 and a baby half-sister whos 4. my mom had remarried a long time ago when me and my brother were young. anyways shes been with this guy for quite sometime, well im sure as you all know, in a marriage its always easy to walk away. the hardest thing to do, is putting in effort to make it work. well my moms husband is a lazy, no good, piece of S**T. we use to own an auto body shop which ended up closing down because my moms husband is so dumb and lazy. it just didnt work out. my mom a few yrs ago started getting into school again to become a nurse. and she got her C.N.A cert. pretty quick(id like to point out that my mom is VERY smart:honor roll in HS,studies til the crack of dawn, etc) and got a job in a hospital right after. she was still working til she was 7 months pregnant and she only stopped working cause the hospital told her she HAD to go on maternity leave. well i dont know what made her husband think that it was ok to let her bring all the money in, but it did. he wouldnt go look for a job. he would sit at home all day long smoking weed, hanging out with his friends, not even take GOOD care of my sister, would ask me to feed her, change her diaper, clean the house, and straight out just a lazy motherf*****r.!! well about 2 yrs ago, i had moved back in with my mom with my son and bf so we were renting a room there. I noticed that her marriage was hitting rock bottom. and it was alot of stress on my mom because shes still going to school to be an R.N to this day..so i always helped her out..watching my sister even though i had a child of my own whos the same age as my sister(haha i know), clean the house, take my brother to and from school. anything i could do. and her husband would be in the garage alllllll day long just doing his thing. whatever finally my mom had a talk with him one night after coming home from work, that if he didnt start putting in any effort AT ALL she was gonna leave him. and he refused to have a serious conversation like that and all he did was threaten to take my sister to mexico with him, whatever she knew he wouldnt even dare. so the next day my mom and bf were working, so i picked my brother up from school because it was SO hot he didnt want to walk and went home. He was in the garage as always, and when we walked inside the house. the house was SUCH a mess, and my little sister was sitting the living room with a diaper on only, her hair was a MESS. toys everywhere. the tv wasnt even on from her. my brother and i were like SHOCKED. so we started cleaning the house, i dressed my sister, brushed her hair. and all of a sudden my moms husband stormed into the house, grabbed my sister by her arm and took her outside in the backyard where there was NO shade and just told her to stay there and he went back into the garage to smoke more weed. well she started crying and ran to the back door and was knocking as if she was asking us to please let her inside so we did. and she looked scared, i didnt know why. anyways she stuck to me like glue, and after 5 mins again he stormed in,grabbed her arm and started taking her outside. Thats when i told him what the hell was his problem, shes fine. ill watch her while he does his thing outside. and he was like NO. mind your own f******g business and took her outside again. again she ran to the door crying and we let her in. and again he came in and i got mad and told him to leave her and she was holding the control in her hands and he got all psycho and grabbed it and threw it across the living room and yelled at me saying that he didnt want his daughter in the same house as my brother. i know right, my brother and i were like WTF, what are you trying to say.?! well when he started walking to the back door, my brother by then couldnt take it anymore and block his way. i was in my room when i heard my brother telling him that he wasnt gonna let him take her outside where its out and alone. and he got close to my brothers face and yelled to get out of his way. and i ran to the kitchen where they were cause thats where the back door is and again my brother yelled back NO.! Thats when he threw the first punch at my brother while holding my little sisters arm, i was like IN SHOCK. so i grabbed my sister, took her to the living room where she couldnt see, ran back to the kitchen and by then they were already throwing punches at eachother. well he got my brother into a headlock and started using his elbow to bring him down and that when i jumped in and started getting down with him to help my brother. i went crazy.!! so my brother and i were both getting down with him. well he got shoved into me which caused me to fall and my brother somehow got loose from his grip and started running towards the front door and i saw that he was gonna chase after him so as he was taking his first step i grabbed his leg which caused him to fall. i got up quick started running towards the front door while picking up my sister on the way out. it was crazy well he chased us down the st but we ran to some neighbor and asked if they could call 911. and they did. and i had to call my mom, and i was so histerical and in shock i was barely able to talk. Before she got there, the cops had arrived and was speaking to us already and we told him what happened. that crazy ******* claimed that my brother was molesting my sister when he wasnt looking and thats why he didnt want her in the house. id like to point out that my brother wouldnt hurt a fly LET ALONE his little sister. i put my life down on that. anyways he was asked to leave, and both my mom and i decided to get a restraining order on him cause he started harrassing and threatening us all. he reported us to Child Protective Services claiming my mom tried committing suicide in from of us multiple times, that because of me our house got raided a few times due to me selling drugs like as if i had some kind of mafia organization going on, and worst of all, my brother was molesting my lil sister. IT WAS HORRIBLE..!!! anyways my mom had to go to court to finalize the restraining order and also cause of custody for my sister. This is when it all started going down hill:( Judge ordered that my moms husband still have visits with my sister and they had to sit down to dicuss their schedule. well after that day, my mom had basically disappeared for like a whole week. she practically left my brother under my care without even telling me. but as my brother, id do anything for him. so i was taking and picking him up from school. cooking food for me, my bf, my son, and brother. we had the house to ourselves. we didnt see our sister for DAYS, my mom had came home one night at 11 pm and took off at 2 am, not even tell me and left my brother there too. thats when we started having suspicion that she was back together and when we did actually see her, we would ask her where has she been.? why havent we seen our sister.? You know being worried children....and she kept denying and denying. after 3 weeks, we were home and we saw a car roll up the driveway and it was my mom with her husband and my sister. he was dropping them off, and before my mom got off the car she reached over and they kissed.! omg my brother and i were IN SUCH A SHOCK, we came out of the house and started yelling at our mom "what the hell is she doing? is she really back with him? how could she do that to us especially after what he said and did to us?" you could only imagine what we said and all my mom did was tell us to "shut up and get back in the house.!" and we were like "no!" and her husband had the nerve to tell me to respect my mom and listen to her. So i turned around and told him "who ****ing asked him for his opinion?! why is he even here? hes violating the restraining order?! i told him to roll out.! well he got mad and drove the car onto the lawn when my back was turned and i was standing with my brother and my son and he ****ing did that.! that lame excuse of a man was trying to "scare" us by doing that, but i just turned around and told him "not to be a lil bitch and if he had balls, i dared him to hit me!" and then i kicked his car. and my mom ran up to his window and said i-dont-know-what and he just took off speeding and burning tire. well i called the cops to press charges on him, and when they came to speak with us. they questioned all witnesses, my brother, myself, and my mom. well when they questioned my mom, she lied in front of US claiming that he never drove his car onto the lawn. and even if he did, she wouldnt of seen cause her back was turned. we were like horrified. oh i want to point out that the officers had told me that the restraining order that was supposedly valid, was never finalized because my mom had requested that the restraining order be taken off months ago. so this whole time when we thought we were somewhat safe cause of the restraining order, we NEVER really were. I couldnt believe my mom lied to us and make us think that we were safe and it wasnt true. anyways after the cops left my mom left right away because she knew that they were gonna arrest him for assault with a deadly weapon. later that night, at 1am she came back and started banging on my door and when i opened the door, she started yelling at me to pack my **** up and get out of her house. and i was like umm do you know what time it is, and do you not know that i have your grandson here with me? and she was just going psycho threatening me that if i didnt leave she was gonna make me leave and blah blah blah. well i told her i was renting the room, so she had to give me a 30 day notice. therefore i wasnt going anywhere until those 30days were up. so she called the cops on me, and when they arrived she told them i had drugs hidden in my room. the cops already by then knew our house, and they knew all that had went on so they told my mom that she was full of **** about the drugs, that it wasnt right of her to try to kick her kids out just because her husband got arrested for trying to run us over in the first place, and yeahh. well after 3 days of him in jail, she pulled another scandalous move and sold my brothers xbox to bail him out. and she tried lying to us that one of his friends bailed him out, which we know was a lie. then she kicked my brother out and sent him to live with my grandma. After she did that, about 3 days later i some how with the help of someone watching over us, i got an apt and by some miracle, the apt a few doors down from my apt was open for rent and i spoke with the manager and was able to get my grandma the apt. so my brother was still close by....... a few days later i went to my moms house to pick up the rest of my stuff and saw that her husband was living there again and they were back together. :"( i couldnt believe that my mom had chosen dick over her children....my brother and i were so heartbroken. we started acting out from all the anger and hurt that we had. there was a phase that we had went through, were we would claim that we had NO mother. it was so hard for us, our sister was being kept from us. our mother basically threw us out for that waste of human flesh, she kept claiming that everything she did was not wrong AT ALL, she actually for some crazy ass reason felt like she was in the right and whether or not we liked it, it wasnt up to us what goes on and we cant do a thing about it because what she say goes.....:( it got so bad all the anger and hurt that we had, that we had done something that ended us with both of us in jail. my brother served 3 months and i served 6 months.... what my mother had done to us damaged mentally and emotionally my lil brother and i....its been a few months since we've been out after being incarcerated. during the time we both were incarcerated, she would come to visit us and tries to act but here and there, my brother or i have nightmares of the day that we fought with her husband............will we ever be able to get over what our mom did to us....will we ever accept our mom back into our life and get over what she had done to us.......:(:(:(:( **AGAIN SORRY FOR THE LONG POST*** Edited March 21, 2014 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
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