fifipheebs Posted March 23, 2014 Share Posted March 23, 2014 need assistance decifering this friend. he does this thing where he gets really flirtatious and handsy then pulls back cuz i reckon he thinks people are watching and he gets nervous for puting too much out there and doesnt want people talking. or does he panic that he's led me on in some way? he'll say things to cover up or justify his actions after he does it. or he'll be very in my face then avoid me like i have a disease the next day. then he probly feels bad so he be running back again. its been going on for a while. we are friends. i dont understand why our mutual friends woud think him being playful with me would be a bad thing if that is what he is nervous abuot. or maybe he doesnt like me more than a friend and just wants his cake and eat it too? any input on this? is he scared of making a move cuz he cant get a read on me? Link to post Share on other sites
Kamila Posted March 25, 2014 Share Posted March 25, 2014 Well, he's still unsure, i guess. He's not scared, maybe scared of himself of what his next moves are. I would say, just be friendly with him, but not overly friendly to the point you're holding his hand. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author fifipheebs Posted March 26, 2014 Author Share Posted March 26, 2014 Well, he's still unsure, i guess. He's not scared, maybe scared of himself of what his next moves are. I would say, just be friendly with him, but not overly friendly to the point you're holding his hand. probable. he does the pull back quite often. one step forward, two steps back. i reckon he's keen on this other chick bz he's been hanging out with quite a bit. Link to post Share on other sites
Caryopteris Posted March 30, 2014 Share Posted March 30, 2014 probable. he does the pull back quite often. one step forward, two steps back. i reckon he's keen on this other chick bz he's been hanging out with quite a bit. Maybe he is just a very careful guy, wanting to find the right girl and not knowing how to get to know you well enough to figure you out. I think some people see dating as risky, and they are cautious. So relax and act like you are just a friend and get to know him as a friend. Ignore the flirting part or flirt back but don't act like it means something. Then you will build his trust and if he likes your personality, he will get up the courage to ask you out. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author fifipheebs Posted April 7, 2014 Author Share Posted April 7, 2014 Maybe he is just a very careful guy, wanting to find the right girl and not knowing how to get to know you well enough to figure you out. I think some people see dating as risky, and they are cautious. So relax and act like you are just a friend and get to know him as a friend. Ignore the flirting part or flirt back but don't act like it means something. Then you will build his trust and if he likes your personality, he will get up the courage to ask you out. He's giving me the brush off Link to post Share on other sites
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