volley Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 (edited) My ex broke up with me about 2 yrs ago, we were together for six yrs. We had a lot going on during those yrs. Job issues for him, money, we lost our baby, me depressed, possibly loosing a house. He broke up with me because we wanted different things but really wanted the same things it was just an excuse. In all reality it was our situations that killed us. He stated we are never getting back together. Close to a yr went by and we met. We went out to dinner and a movie. Then right after that. We met again things got ackward just laying on his bed talking and he reaches over to put his arm around me. After I confronted him we went opposite way. Now hes back I contacted him told him im ready to be friends. Nothing. Then out of the blue he texts me a smart comment and we hit it off and I did go and see him. We went out to dinner and went back to his place (our old house). We talked for the whole entire night. I really miss him and I told him. I dont know if he miss me or just misses our friendship. He stated as above we are never getting back together in the past..It just seems like we are there in each other lives some how. We never went a full yr without talking to each other. My question is, do men ever realize breaking up and after dating other women that they find they lost something good and want it back? I feel like our situations today is better than before. Im not depressed, we both have good jobs now, he saved his house. I really would like to try but I dont want to push the subject he has been more open with me and even texting back . I just dont know if its wrong to give it another try? Edited March 26, 2014 by volley Link to post Share on other sites
itsdinaah Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 I just dont know if its wrong to give it another try? It doesn't seem like he's completely ready to be with you at the moment. He didn't respond to your message but then he texts you later about something completely different. And he keeps telling you that you will never get back together. Either he wants you as a friend or likes the attention you give him. But he does still text you and talks to you. I think he only wants a friendship with you and nothing else. I don't think you should try to bring up the subject again. Maybe try to gauge how he feels about you. He seems confused. Link to post Share on other sites
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