Guys, What would you do??

[bibi]

What would you do with someone whom you had been feeling before you were married ,but she had your child. Because before she could turn around you had gone and gotten married,She found out she was pregnant.Besides, she doesn't want to hang around your front door with her baby wrapped in her shawl like some kind of fallen woman.However, everyone knows that the secret will always be out

[Tony T]

Pay for a DNA test to establish paternity for certain. If it was found I was the father, I would arrange to pay child support until the child was 18 years of age. Formalize this arrangement along with visitation privileges. I would tell my new bride about this situation. Take the consequences. Get on with my life.

 

I don't think this is such an unusual situation these days.

[bibi]

Firstly, She isn't suppose to using the baby to get you back,either AND the baby already was already grown up and doesn't need your pennyfor supporting both of them.

 

" the secret always will be out " means it's from naturally.

Pay for a DNA test to establish paternity for certain. If it was found I was the father, I would arrange to pay child support until the child was 18 years of age. Formalize this arrangement along with visitation privileges. I would tell my new bride about this situation. Take the consequences. Get on with my life. I don't think this is such an unusual situation these days.

[Tony T]

Ok, I think I was just get to know my kid, since he/she would already be grown...that would be a nice thing to do. Other than that, if no money is needed or requested for any purpose, I see nothing else necessary to do.

 

I'm sure I'm missing something here. Surely there are others who will post better ideas on this subject.