alexisalina Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 My story begins 7 years ago when I stated dating a man from work, he kept asking e out me and I gave in, when I fell in love head over heals he backed out , he needed space, so I gave him space and he came running back . After a few months we decided to go abroad together and start a new life and as we did this I found out I was pregnant. Everything was perfect, yeah we fought some times and I kind of kept telling him im leaving all the time because I needed him to tell me to stay. 7 years later we start to go through a hard time, we don't communicate or make love and one day he goes out and comes home to say he lost his wedding ring. We have a fight and it ends in im leaving only this time he sais go, I don't love you anymore. I wakeup and beg and cry and beg and go to stay at my dads for a week with my son to give him space, come back change completely , and I try to show him I love him but he moves out and rents a place, so I cry and watch him pack and he goes. The next day he comes back with flowers and his suitcases tells me he loves me and want to be with me and for two weeks we have the perfect relationship, and then we go back to the start. One day again he starts ignoring me, he then again spends all his time on his phone (I don't have his code so I cant check his phone , he changed his code when he first said he doesn't love me ) . I try to ask why, I try to talk to him I even tell him I will accept if he has someone else, I tell him to talk but he refuses , he sais he doesn't want to talk , and every day I wake up , to a man that doesn't communicate , I don't know if he loves me , what is going on??? I ask him if he wants me to leave him and he sais do whatever you want. He sais he doesn't want to leave me , but he is hurting me everyday by treating e cold and like I don't exist. Help!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
worldgonewrong Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 He is cheating on you left and right, hence the hot/cold treatment. You need to get the hell out of this relationship and muster some self-respect. Seek out family/friends that will support you during this transition time. But GET OUT. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted March 26, 2014 Share Posted March 26, 2014 He's cheated and now you're second best for him. Run. Link to post Share on other sites
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