Everything is going great as I wanted in my life but no women.

[youcanever]

I am 24 year old. Graduated from college as a mechanical engineer last year. Worked at a construction company for 3 months and then got this "product development engineer" job at a very well known automotive company(10 months experience for now). I am also studying on my masters degree on automotive engineering, plus hitting gym as hard as I can and socializing once a week. Here is my weekly schelude.

 

Working 8am to 6pm 5 days a week. (waking up at 6am and reach home at 7.30pm)

Have lessons thursday evening 7pm to 10pm and saturdays 10am to 7pm.

Socializing only saturday evenings.

Hitting gym, sunday, tuesday,wednesday, friday for 1-1.5 hours.

And for the rest of time, I am studying on my homeworks, assignments, quizes, exams etc.

 

For now I have no luck with girls. I don't even have options around me. The only positive thing about me is my self-control is getting better. I am getting more bold and doing things which make me uncomfortable and get out of my comfort zone. Makes me feel stronger and more positive. Sometime I am even flirting with my female co-workers but not pushing too hard, just chillin and having fun.

 

Not getting laid is kind of depressing for now but I hope summer will be better because lessons will end and I will only focus on work & gym & new hobby, maybe dancing. I've heard there are some hot chicks interested in latin dances.

 

I just needed to vent because I feel a lil down right now and now I am going to push myself to study for my next week exams.

 

Anyone ever gone through it, I'd like to hear some good advices. Am I on right path or am I pushing myself too hard and not enjoying life?

 

What would you recommend and what are your thoughts?

 

Sorry for long read.

 

Cheers !

[crederer]

It sounds like you're doing the right things. Give it time, it will come.

 

How do you feel about yourself? Believe it or not that is a major factor in finding a girlfriend.

 

It's about self confidence. You can't fake it, you either have it or you don't. And if you don't you have to figure out why and make the necessary changes.