sinderela Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Have hung out with this guy for about 1 month. Then he stopped asking me out. He still calls though. Recently he called to inform me that he would be relocating in his job almost across the street from where I work. He also just calls to say how are ya doing, he doesn't ask me out...but the main reason he calls is to tell me to watch his favorite tv show. He calls at least 2 or 3 times a week to tell me to watch a tv show that he likes about 5 minutes before it starts. He just says hey, that show is on, then he asks if I have any questions about the characters, etc. The last time I saw him a week ago, we spend about 6 hours together hanging out watching movies. He said he wouldn't be "going out" until next month. Said he is focusing on work and school. Catching up on finances etc. I didn't ask him any questions because I felt he was giving me the heave ho. I think he is just blowing me off, and possibly trying to remain friendly. Link to post Share on other sites
joseyposie Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 PLAYER GET RID OF HIM. Link to post Share on other sites
Magus Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Maybe he is calling the relationship to a close. You'll never know if you don't ask. Don't play games, you'll only hurt the possible friendship and lose some trust in the process. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sinderela Posted January 30, 2005 Author Share Posted January 30, 2005 What about friendship? Do you think he is trying to stay in touch for a friendship? He has called me every other day in the past week. Not to ask me on a date, but he obviously is thinking about me to dial the number? I think he is a nice person and I would feel bad being mean to him or rude or asking him to stop calling. I am a nice person too and he probably knows it. Or is it ................just not into you excuses I am making? Friendships/Relationships evolve over time. Any mature person knows that, I say I should just be the best person I can be and see what happens! Link to post Share on other sites
Magus Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Sometimes even a "nice" person will come off as playing games. Head games don't do anybody a favor. Be upfront with what you got goin on inside. If he dances around the subject, he aint bein strait n aint worth the comitment. Find someone worth your time, someone that you can be yourself with. Life is too short to waste your time. Link to post Share on other sites
Author sinderela Posted February 1, 2005 Author Share Posted February 1, 2005 He still keeps calling me to chat at least every other day for the past 2 weeks. He doesn't really talk very long, just mostly, wanting to see what I am up to, talk about our day etc. Maybe he is just taking things really slow. I hope he will ask me out soon. He obviously is thinking about me enough to call so frequently. I think when we met the attraction/chemistry was so intense that maybe we got ahead of ourselves. I think this is his way of saying lets slow down and take our time. He is a very nice down to earth kind of person. I really don't think he would be the type to waste his or my time playing games. Link to post Share on other sites
savethedrama4allama Posted February 1, 2005 Share Posted February 1, 2005 Calling about the a TV show, telling you to watch and asking if you need info on the characters, is just plain weird! Link to post Share on other sites
Author sinderela Posted February 2, 2005 Author Share Posted February 2, 2005 Llama I agree with you completely... That is why I had to write about it and ask, wondering if it was just me thinking it was weird. But obviously it is to you too. Link to post Share on other sites
Magus Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Well, at least he's calling, n not just blowin you off. (sheesh, some people just gotta look that gift horse straight in the mouth) Link to post Share on other sites
_Saffy_ Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by Magus Well, at least he's calling, n not just blowin you off. (sheesh, some people just gotta look that gift horse straight in the mouth) yeah, ya gotta BE GRATEFUL that hes stringing you along, calling you for no apparent reason, leaving you feeling like you have no idea where you stand with him!! (sheesh, some people just cant see when they got it made!) ALL SARCASM INVOLVED IN MAKING THIS POST WAS FULLY INTENDED Link to post Share on other sites
Magus Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Your funny. I like that in a woman I like me in a woman even better. (don't I just crack you up?) (roflmao) Link to post Share on other sites
_Saffy_ Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by Magus Your funny. I like that in a woman I like me in a woman even better. (don't I just crack you up?) (roflmao) <sigh> remind me ..........what age do people attend high school these days Link to post Share on other sites
Magus Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 I aint even gradiated da 6th grade. (yuck yuck) (it's nice to see a person with a sense of humor in these forums) Link to post Share on other sites
_Saffy_ Posted February 2, 2005 Share Posted February 2, 2005 Originally posted by Magus I aint even gradiated da 6th grade. (yuck yuck) (it's nice to see a person with a sense of humor in these forums) lol thanks........and i didnt think so Link to post Share on other sites
Author sinderela Posted February 3, 2005 Author Share Posted February 3, 2005 I am getting a pretty good feeling now from the interest he is now showing. I am getting a telephone call every day now. We don't talk long, but I really enjoy the attention, communication and hearing his voice. He is a very nice person and in the past week he hasn't mentioned watching his favorite tv show. He seems to be just taking things at a very slow pace which is nice. I am starting to get a feeling that he cares for me, either as a friend or more. If we are only establishing a friendship its what is supposed to be, if more develops then so be it. I will still continue to go out, meet and date others. However, I do feel a very strong connection to this one but that doesn't mean it is meant to be, he would be my first choice (at the moment), but he is not the only guy in the world. I am a very good person-maybe he is just finally realizing it, but isn't quite sure if he is ready to have such a fantastic person in his life, maybe he doesn't feel worthy? He will have to keep working at it and figure it out. I am not waiting for him, however, I am giving him space(I think some people are just slow at certain things). BTW, I don't call him. Thanks all for your support and thoughts! Link to post Share on other sites
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