littlemama77 Posted March 31, 2014 Share Posted March 31, 2014 Hello - So I am going to spare you my backstory but my husband and I have been separated for a year and a half. He cheated on me and is living with her. Since it has been so long I mentioned the other day that maybe it was time that the kids started visiting him at his house. The kids have never met her and he has yet to have his 2 worlds collide. I figure since they have been together for a somewhat significant period of time that they must been doing well and so its time to incorporate the kids. I think this will help them understand that he is not coming back and answer allot of questions they have. When I brought it up he got super quiet and didn't completely shut down, talked like it was a good idea but his behavior has proved otherwise bc he cut the conversation short and said we would talk about it later, which means never. I know you guys can't speak for him but anyone been through this? Where one parent wants to be part of the kids lives but wants to keep his "new life" completely separate? I am not sure I understand, I mean I understand if he wants to keep his new life a bit more simple, but in reality thats not the reality of his life....eventually the kids are going to have to be incorporated, right?! I am so confused!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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