moimeme Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 We have a poster complaining that women 'don't like sex' and we have another poster claiming that women think sex is 'dirty' and that they don't really llike it. They are both whining they don't get enough sex after a couple years in a relationship. I know there are lots of LS ladies needing more sack time than they're getting. Shout out on this thread to show these guys how wrong they are!! Link to post Share on other sites
li'l bunny Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 I love sex, I want to have it all the time, everywhere. I read somewhere (was it here?) that it takes a while for men's testosterone levels to build back up to the level where they want to have sex again and therefore once every few days is enough for men. HOWEVER when women have sex their testosterone levels increase and the more sex they have the more they want. So if they go without for awhile they start forgetting what it was like! Link to post Share on other sites
sunlight Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 I definitly never ever will get enough. I could beg all I want and its just not going to happen.. and theres been alot of begging. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Moi, don't even try. Your attempts will be viewed as you 'not liking the sound of reality', and all of your validating respondents will be seen as liars, merely soldiers in the war against the male libido. Just as women think they know more about male sexuality/mentality when it comes to porn, men think they know more about the female sexuality/mentality when it comes to the dwindling instances of sexual activity as a relationship progresses. Link to post Share on other sites
VirginiaBob Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Okay, I have a solution for all of you. Just come over to VirginiaBob's house and I'll take care of everything. Link to post Share on other sites
GirlDown Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Originally posted by dyermaker Moi, don't even try. Your attempts will be viewed as you 'not liking the sound of reality', and all of your validating respondents will be seen as liars, merely soldiers in the war against the male libido. Just as women think they know more about male sexuality/mentality when it comes to porn, men think they know more about the female sexuality/mentality when it comes to the dwindling instances of sexual activity as a relationship progresses. and none of what you said here is ever going to be completely accurate, seeing as it depends on the individual. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 I love sex, I don't get it as much I want. I KNOW I think about sex alot more than my husband. I'm always horny and ready to go when he is...Just HE at times is too preoccupied, busy with work stuff, tired or just plain not in the mood. Really SUCKS for me because if I could have it twice a day I'd be happy. We go through phases though, and man do I look forward to those major sex session phrases!!!!! Hmmm, well I think I might go see what my man is doing now...No football so I could be in the clear! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Okay, I have a solution for all of you. Just come over to VirginiaBob's house and I'll take care of everything. Is that a threat or a promise? Link to post Share on other sites
seahorse Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 I don't get enough either. I've been horny all day today, and there's no one to play with me! Current bf is a ldr and lives miles away. We only meet infrequently and it's nowhere near enough! Link to post Share on other sites
Anais Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 I read an article yesterday that women’s sex drive is going down if they are criticized or not happy with their look. Gaining some weight, illnesses, pimples can make a woman to feel not in mood. Sometimes by changing the partner their sexual drive is changed dramatically. There was a lady whose boyfriend told her that her body is not exactly his ideal type. After 5 years of unsatisfied sexual life she moved on and met someone else who made her to feel really sexy. I have very high sexual drive. My husband and former partners called me a nymph. My husband had to joke: Are you sure you are a woman? You want it all the time. However, without love environment sex is not enjoyable for me. Link to post Share on other sites
VirginiaBob Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 "Gaining some weight, illnesses, pimples can make a woman to feel not in mood." Oh, from what I read on the other thread, it's all the man's fault. Go figure that it might have to do with other reasons rather simply blaming the husband for everything that goes wrong. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Originally posted by seahorse I don't get enough either. I've been horny all day today, and there's no one to play with me! Current bf is a ldr and lives miles away. We only meet infrequently and it's nowhere near enough! so what you are saying SEAHORSE that frequent sex, even tho you want it, is not that impt to you cause your B/F lives 500 miles away. if frequent sex were truly impt to you your b/f would live closer to you so that you could bang his lights out every nite. Link to post Share on other sites
Anais Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Alpha, you got the wrong idea. Wanting sex all the time and putting it above everything are two different things. VirginiaBob, men can help women to get over the problems with their love. Link to post Share on other sites
li'l bunny Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 It depends on hormones too. After my first child I was never in the mood but since my second I am always contstantly, and will be forever in the mood. I have a question though. Do men prefer oral sex than penetrative sex? My hubby often says he's not in the mood for sex but would be 'willing' to let me give him head. Laziness?? Link to post Share on other sites
curiousnycgirl Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 I must weigh in with my thoughts here - I have always heard complaints from my male friends that their wives/SO's don't "put out" as often as they would like. As I began to approach 40 I just could NOT figure this one out. My libido has been gaining momentum over the past 10 years. Most recently my higher sex drive has actually been an issue between my b/f and I. I'm still not sure I understand his lack of libido - but he is beginning to understand that going months without makes me feel very insecure and I wonder why he has lost interest. Perhaps it is just G-d's trick on those of us who have remained single/childless through our 30's. Our libido is waaay up there, but we are not necessarily in relationships that will support it. Whatever the cause - I certainly have a higher drive than my b/f! Thanks for asking the question. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Originally posted by GirlDown and none of what you said here is ever going to be completely accurate, seeing as it depends on the individual. It was addressed to a specific group of people--The alphmale/virginiabob camp is just as guilty as the antiporn camp--who are certain that they know more about the idiosyncrasies of the opposite gender, despite overwhelming firsthand evidence otherwise. If a member of the opposite gender rightfully objects to the cynical misguided attempts at psychology by these types of people, they merely 'don't like the sound of the truth'. It's called delusion, and plenty of people make plenty of money off of it. It's possible "Doc Love" or David D'Angelo does so well with the ladies not becuase of his patented 'System" but because of the incredible amount of wealth they've amassed with the suckers who buy the text. Link to post Share on other sites
seahorse Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 Hi Alpha so what you are saying SEAHORSE that frequent sex, even tho you want it, is not that impt to you cause your B/F lives 500 miles away. if frequent sex were truly impt to you your b/f would live closer to you so that you could bang his lights out every nite. Well, lol, getting my boyfriend to move closer to me is in the planning. Currently I am divorcing my hubby, but we're having to stick it out under the same roof until mediation has sorted out the finances. Rest assured, as soon as I'm able, things will improve! Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 Originally posted by seahorse Hi Alpha Well, lol, getting my boyfriend to move closer to me is in the planning. no, what i meant was if frequent sex was a high priority for you then you woould have chosen a boyfriend who lived near you, not one who lived far away. so frequent sex is really not as impt to you as you thought. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale so frequent sex is really not as impt to you as you thought. Aha! You've proved her wrong! Brilliant! You know more about her thoughts and preferences than even SHE does! Impressive. Link to post Share on other sites
Kat Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 Only reason we aren't having sex is because of me I have sex on tap so I can't complain! Link to post Share on other sites
Author moimeme Posted January 31, 2005 Author Share Posted January 31, 2005 Dyer, Alpha, Bob - hey, you've declared yourselves 'ladies'? Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 Start a thread labelled, "Dyer, don't post here"--See what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
yeformerballandchain Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 Ha, I thought I was the only one in 'the mood' today. Great thread! smd Link to post Share on other sites
Author moimeme Posted January 31, 2005 Author Share Posted January 31, 2005 Start a thread labelled, "Dyer, don't post here"--See what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr Spock Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 I'd raise a hand but it's too busy at the moment. Link to post Share on other sites
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